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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 8:55am
I had to reply to this. I'm sure between 05 and 13 this has been discussed before but umm....

I wish a negro would ask me to risk my life to engage in casual sex?!??!!

He'd be pulling his pants back up and tying up some laces.

This ain't the eighties...we have to do better.

Chile please =)
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 8:58am
The 80s?LOL
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 9:09am
Originally posted by comingofage03 comingofage03 wrote:

I have been a silent lurker on this site for years...on and off.

However, after coming upon this post, I could not, in good faith fail to reply.

Ma'am, you have to ask yourself this one pertinent question.

If this chap suggests you engage in recreational sex with him unprotected, who else does he makes the same requests of?

Are you that special to him that he's will to risk the health of his body or possibly become linked to you indefinitely by way of an unplanned child?

No, you are not! He's doing the same thing with ------> her.

Our gullible almost juvenile behavior is exactly why the HIV rates among hetero African American women are through the roof.

We care more about stroking the ego of some man before we consider the value of our own worth. (My opinion on why women are less vocal concerning safety in the bedroom)

IMHO...Being a big girl and having sex with multiple partners, outside of marriage, within a marriage, etc. all come with varying degrees of responsibility.

I am not the morality police but please think and do responsibly.

I said all of that to say...Take care of yourself, you are worth it.

God created you to be more than a pharmaceutical statistic.

The end! =) You brought me out of hiding.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 9:47am
Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

I was dealing with this gentleman who I had to persuade to wear a condom. I didnt have to go into a lengthy debate with him, but he tried to go in me raw and I had to tell him no more than once. he wanted to hit with no condom and this really bothered me because he is not my boyfriend and we dont know each other like that.  i just dont get it. does sex feel bad to men wearing a rubber? smh and dont tell me not to deal with him b/c the pipe too good


then you shouldn't have been having sex with him.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 9:49am
I love when people ask questions they already know the answer to.....
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I don't understand it, either. I know it's lack of sensation, I just don't understand why people are so fcking stupid to have raw sex with any old body KNOWING that HIV/AIDS and other untreatable stds are still rampant. Is a good nut worth risking your entire future for?

I have a girlfriend now who I had to check tf out of. She has a really good & loyal bf up in NY, but was still fcking her ex down here raw (while he had a girlfriend that he was also fcking raw) and then she carried her ass up there and convinced her NY bf to go raw (he was apprehensive) before coming back down and fcking the ex raw more. 

I cussed her out for that bull. IDC who ur screwing and how much....that ain't my business and I'm not worried about it, but wear a damn condom before you fck around and start burning and crying about how your "life is ruined" while you was riding dic to dic unprotected.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 10:04am
Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:

Because it feels good. Next


tis allLOL
I hate rubbers too. but what to do.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 10:06am
Originally posted by danieb23 danieb23 wrote:

I don't understand it, either. I know it's lack of sensation, I just don't understand why people are so fcking stupid to have raw sex with any old body KNOWING that HIV/AIDS and other untreatable stds are still rampant. Is a good nut worth risking your entire future for?

I have a girlfriend now who I had to check tf out of. She has a really good & loyal bf up in NY, but was still fcking her ex down here raw (while he had a girlfriend that he was also fcking raw) and then she carried her ass up there and convinced her NY bf to go raw (he was apprehensive) before coming back down and fcking the ex raw more



'zus christ
Ouch

yet why the way this is worded made me laugh, i dunnoLOL

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 10:07am
Originally posted by danieb23 danieb23 wrote:

I don't understand it, either. I know it's lack of sensation, I just don't understand why people are so fcking stupid to have raw sex with any old body KNOWING that HIV/AIDS and other untreatable stds are still rampant. Is a good nut worth risking your entire future for?

I have a girlfriend now who I had to check tf out of. She has a really good & loyal bf up in NY, but was still fcking her ex down here raw (while he had a girlfriend that he was also fcking raw) and then she carried her ass up there and convinced her NY bf to go raw (he was apprehensive) before coming back down and fcking the ex raw more. 

I cussed her out for that bull. IDC who ur screwing and how much....that ain't my business and I'm not worried about it, but wear a damn condom before you fck around and start burning and crying about how your "life is ruined" while you was riding dic to dic unprotected.
Your Girlfriend is way past Thrifflin
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 10:09am

i love how after reading your previous eloquently written post..

then came this

LOL


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Originally posted by comingofage03 comingofage03 wrote:

I had to reply to this. I'm sure between 05 and 13 this has been discussed before but umm....

I wish a negro would ask me to risk my life to engage in casual sex?!??!!

He'd be pulling his pants back up and tying up some laces.

This ain't the eighties...we have to do better.

Chile please =)
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