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    Posted: Oct 24 2011 at 2:42am
You think dark skin women got it bad? wats up with sistas hatred for light skin men? Black men catch all kinds of heat for putting down dark women but black women get a pass for putting down light men? I always here sistas saying i like em dark, tall, dark, and handsome, the dark the berry etc whats the difference between that and i want a long haired red bone? I hear yall saying we're gay,soft,feminine,too light,ugly etc.Im not trippin cuz black women arent the only race of women alot of latino chick (whites and asians too) love yella boys so i aint mad. Im just wondering because im lost on how black women hate the men who usually prefer dark skin black women but love the ones who hate yall lol. Some people tell me black women are intimidated by us ( he's too pretty, theyre playas, theyre stuck up etc) is that the case? dark men tell me the " too pretty" line indicates yall think light skin men look better idk.Are we just ugly ? because black women act like were hideous. put me up on it cuz im sprung off black women and my heart hurts when yall diss us so keep it 100 and tell me what all the huey newtons of the world did to yall lol.
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I know plenty of women that still prefer light skin men... idk I've heard both sides of your story you may just be picking the wrong ones :(

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Lol idk about other black women but i love light skin black men. But I hear alot my friends refer to light men as being too pretty or they look soft along with them being conceited and pimps. But I appreciate a guy that looks as good as I do.

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most black women i know just want a man that'll treat them right...i think you're hanging out with the wrong people...


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I don't believe the consensus is universal to everyone as I have a friend who prefers a lighter skin tone and generally dates them whereas myself I prefer my darker skin tones. For me it don't go any deeper than that, doesn't mean I wouldn't date, interact with my lighter brothers and sisters.
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Originally posted by pantherthug pantherthug wrote:

You think dark skin women got it bad? wats up with sistas hatred for light skin men? Black men catch all kinds of heat for putting down dark women but black women get a pass for putting down light men? I always here sistas saying i like em dark, tall, dark, and handsome, the dark the berry etc whats the difference between that and i want a long haired red bone? I hear yall saying we're gay,soft,feminine,too light,ugly etc.Im not trippin cuz black women arent the only race of women alot of latino chick (whites and asians too) love yella boys so i aint mad. Im just wondering because im lost on how black women hate the men who usually prefer dark skin black women but love the ones who hate yall lol. Some people tell me black women are intimidated by us ( he's too pretty, theyre playas, theyre stuck up etc) is that the case? dark men tell me the " too pretty" line indicates yall think light skin men look better idk.Are we just ugly ? because black women act like were hideous. put me up on it cuz im sprung off black women and my heart hurts when yall diss us so keep it 100 and tell me what all the huey newtons of the world did to yall lol.
 
Your very first post on tthis forum is some light skin dark skin mess....
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anybody ever watch that movie dark girls yet?
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I wish people would stop generalising people by race.
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