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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

perhaps i should have asked you to pick the lesser of two evils. I specified white women because they are the majority.
My opinion would be skewed because I am black and have had more interaction with black women, so I can't really answer that. Overall I just choose not to be around that many women, period. My experience with black middle class women has just been the worse for the reasons listed above. 

Generally speaking, white women do not see me as a threat. They are competing against other white women or white men. Black middle class women where I live prefer to compete against the only other black person in the room. Like a race to be the only "token". I don't understand that. I'm tired of that.

The only reason I even specified black women is because that is what the topic pertains to. 

This is really the only forum I've been on where saying that is taken as a huge dig. There are people on this very thread, who I am quite certain would prefer the company of a middle class black woman over a "ghetto" lower class black woman....and I'm sure they have their "reasons". I am the opposite. It's for whatever reason, okay in our community to dislike "ghetto" black people, but the reverse is offensive. Which is interesting to me. 




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OMC I partially agree with what you're saying.  You are speaking from your own experience I understand but as another so-called MC Black Woman I am not the person you describe and there are many of us here on BHM.   I think your opinion is skewed by a small subset of Black women.   We're not all like that.  Generalization is part of the problem. 

I do believe you have not experienced good relationships with other women.   In my case other black women from the most ghetto to the most stuck up have taught be so much about life.  I would not trade those relationships for the world.  It makes me sad to hear women dismiss the importance of female relationships. 

BTW this video is STILL bullsh*t. 
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Slightly OT: For clarity, what qualifies as lower, middle and upper class these days? We need another thread on that.
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didnt watch the video btw...im sure its ish
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Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

I don't like to be around catty, petty and insecure women. Race doesn't have anything to do with it. I've always had a limited amount of female friends but a plethora of acquaintances. I'm a tomboy at heart so my likes and interests tend to side more with males.


thank you!!Clap




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Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:

  It makes me sad to hear women dismiss the importance of female relationships. 

BTW this video is STILL bullsh*t. 



me too. I  get along great with women and usually prefer their company (other than the obvious of courseLOL)

didn't watch



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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Slightly OT: For clarity, what qualifies as lower, middle and upper class these days? We need another thread on that.


just what this place needs
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i don't understand why he's relegating the topic to "women"?  specifically "black women?"..

In my geographic location, black people hate black people in general on sight.Confused






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Originally posted by femmemuscleisback femmemuscleisback wrote:

i don't understand why he's relegating the topic to "women"?  specifically "black women?"..

In my geographic location, black people hate black people in general on sight.



Where the hell you live?
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (4) Thanks(4)   Quote Diane (35) Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 23 2014 at 4:22pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Slightly OT: For clarity, what qualifies as lower, middle and upper class these days? We need another thread on that.


just what this place needs

I can see it now: Random Middle Class Thoughts The 401K Edition
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