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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

I don't mind women...Women are catty but I don't pay too much attention it unless you say sh*t about me then we got a problem Stern Smile


This is what I can't get my sister to understand about me. The talking about me doesn't bother me much anymore, especially if you don't have the balls to say it in my face......but if you put your hands on me it's ova
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Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Originally posted by OhMyCurlz OhMyCurlz wrote:

Wellll....I don't like women in general. I will fight all day for women's rights and equality on a political front, but I would rather be in a room full of gay and straight men than a biological woman. I don't care how illogical it is, it's the truth. 

I like black women, middle class, the least....and yes, I am a middle class black woman. I just call a spade a spade and I don't like what I see. Where I live black women of the "middle class" are elitists. None of them want to see another black woman make it. In a room full of white people with two black women in the room, the black woman is more inclined to view YOU as competition than her white counterparts. That ish on RHOA rings true a good portion of the time. Not in all circles, but in that "upper" middle class circle. It be like that...and who has time for that type of bs on a daily? I hate that. It's always an unspoken "competition". Their views about "the others" is so simplistic. Too much drama and confrontation. It bothers me that so many black women glorify "beating a bytch" ass. It's embarrassing. Men do it too, but the level of passion and emotion over some straight dumb sh*t that women go at it about is unrivaled. 

Now, true hoodrats? No problem. I have never had an issue with a "hood chick". For the most part they know where they stand, where they are, and where they are going...even if they aint going nowhere. 

Oh well. 

Real talk tho u can hate who u want, but out of all the women, from every race, country, socioeconomic background, etc...u hate middle class black women the most??? Dead I have my issues with some myself but damn u trippin...Dead @ u liking hoodrats more
Where did I say that I hated anyone? 

Yes, to answer your question. I would rather deal with a Joseline Hernandez, Britissh, Momma Dee, and Frankie than a Nene Leakes, Phaedra Parks, or Jackie ANY time of the week and twice on Sunday. Yup.These womens' come up is bringing other black women (yes, black women as that is who they view as their threat) down. I am not saying that hoodrats don't partake in the same phuckery but at least I know what to expect. 

Middle class black women, again from my experience, do behind your back what they aren't hood enough to do to your face. I have no time for that. 

Why is it more acceptable to like middle class black women over lower class black women though? That's exactly what I am talking about. That whole mentality. Black lower class women are still apart of the black community. If I said "I don't like ghetto black women they make us look bad and they need to do betta!11 then that's okay....but if I say "I don't like middle class black women who are with the drama but hide their hands like they aren't" I'm a "coon"? Forreal, tho. Okey doke. 


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Originally posted by OhMyCurlz OhMyCurlz wrote:

Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Originally posted by OhMyCurlz OhMyCurlz wrote:

Wellll....I don't like women in general. I will fight all day for women's rights and equality on a political front, but I would rather be in a room full of gay and straight men than a biological woman. I don't care how illogical it is, it's the truth. 

I like black women, middle class, the least....and yes, I am a middle class black woman. I just call a spade a spade and I don't like what I see. Where I live black women of the "middle class" are elitists. None of them want to see another black woman make it. In a room full of white people with two black women in the room, the black woman is more inclined to view YOU as competition than her white counterparts. That ish on RHOA rings true a good portion of the time. Not in all circles, but in that "upper" middle class circle. It be like that...and who has time for that type of bs on a daily? I hate that. It's always an unspoken "competition". Their views about "the others" is so simplistic. Too much drama and confrontation. It bothers me that so many black women glorify "beating a bytch" ass. It's embarrassing. Men do it too, but the level of passion and emotion over some straight dumb sh*t that women go at it about is unrivaled. 

Now, true hoodrats? No problem. I have never had an issue with a "hood chick". For the most part they know where they stand, where they are, and where they are going...even if they aint going nowhere. 

Oh well. 

Real talk tho u can hate who u want, but out of all the women, from every race, country, socioeconomic background, etc...u hate middle class black women the most??? Dead I have my issues with some myself but damn u trippin...Dead @ u liking hoodrats more
Where did I say that I hated anyone? 

Yes, to answer your question. I would rather deal with a Joseline Hernandez, Britissh, Momma Dee, and Frankie than a Nene Leakes, Phaedra Parks, or Jackie ANY time of the week and twice on Sunday. Yup.These womens' come up is bringing other black women (yes, black women as that is who they view as their threat) down. I am not saying that hoodrats don't partake in the same phuckery but at least I know what to expect. 

Middle class black women, again from my experience, do behind your back what they aren't hood enough to do to your face. I have no time for that. 

Why is it more acceptable to like middle class black women over lower class black women though? That's exactly what I am talking about. That whole mentality. Black lower class women are still apart of the black community. If I said "I don't like ghetto black women they make us look bad and they need to do betta!11 then that's okay....but if I say "I don't like middle class black women who are with the drama but hide their hands like they aren't" I'm a "coon"? Forreal, tho. Okey doke. 

would you prefer to keep the company of a middle class white woman?
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rather watch a youtube called why don't black people like being black
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This thread is.....interesting.
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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by OhMyCurlz OhMyCurlz wrote:

Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Originally posted by OhMyCurlz OhMyCurlz wrote:

Wellll....I don't like women in general. I will fight all day for women's rights and equality on a political front, but I would rather be in a room full of gay and straight men than a biological woman. I don't care how illogical it is, it's the truth. 

I like black women, middle class, the least....and yes, I am a middle class black woman. I just call a spade a spade and I don't like what I see. Where I live black women of the "middle class" are elitists. None of them want to see another black woman make it. In a room full of white people with two black women in the room, the black woman is more inclined to view YOU as competition than her white counterparts. That ish on RHOA rings true a good portion of the time. Not in all circles, but in that "upper" middle class circle. It be like that...and who has time for that type of bs on a daily? I hate that. It's always an unspoken "competition". Their views about "the others" is so simplistic. Too much drama and confrontation. It bothers me that so many black women glorify "beating a bytch" ass. It's embarrassing. Men do it too, but the level of passion and emotion over some straight dumb sh*t that women go at it about is unrivaled. 

Now, true hoodrats? No problem. I have never had an issue with a "hood chick". For the most part they know where they stand, where they are, and where they are going...even if they aint going nowhere. 

Oh well. 

Real talk tho u can hate who u want, but out of all the women, from every race, country, socioeconomic background, etc...u hate middle class black women the most??? Dead I have my issues with some myself but damn u trippin...Dead @ u liking hoodrats more
Where did I say that I hated anyone? 

Yes, to answer your question. I would rather deal with a Joseline Hernandez, Britissh, Momma Dee, and Frankie than a Nene Leakes, Phaedra Parks, or Jackie ANY time of the week and twice on Sunday. Yup.These womens' come up is bringing other black women (yes, black women as that is who they view as their threat) down. I am not saying that hoodrats don't partake in the same phuckery but at least I know what to expect. 

Middle class black women, again from my experience, do behind your back what they aren't hood enough to do to your face. I have no time for that. 

Why is it more acceptable to like middle class black women over lower class black women though? That's exactly what I am talking about. That whole mentality. Black lower class women are still apart of the black community. If I said "I don't like ghetto black women they make us look bad and they need to do betta!11 then that's okay....but if I say "I don't like middle class black women who are with the drama but hide their hands like they aren't" I'm a "coon"? Forreal, tho. Okey doke. 

would you prefer to keep the company of a middle class white woman?
*sigh*

Please see original post as shown above: 

"Wellll....I don't like women in general."
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that has nothing to do with whether or not you would rather keep the company of a middle class white woman over that of a middle class black woman. You specifically mentioned black women and went into detail as to why you would not want to be around middle class black women. Are the reasons the same for white women or not?
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Why are you on BHM?
Since you don't like us and all....
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I dislike individual black women depending on the person. It's human nature not to like people. I've never said I hated/didn't like black women -shrugs.

I don't like overly feminine or masculine women, usually. I make male friends easier. Not a black thing though
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Bored w/Out Me? Bored w/Out Me? wrote:

Black Women who love themselves like each other its the ratchet black girl who doesn't love herself and hasn't evolved into anything that allows herself to dislike her Sista for no reason....


THISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!

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