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Originally posted by Bored w/Out Me? Bored w/Out Me? wrote:

Black Women who love themselves like each other its the ratchet black girl who doesn't love herself and hasn't evolved into anything that allows herself to dislike her Sista for no reason....


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I don't like to be around catty, petty and insecure women. Race doesn't have anything to do with it. I've always had a limited amount of female friends but a plethora of acquaintances. I'm a tomboy at heart so my likes and interests tend to side more with males.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (6) Thanks(6)   Quote kfoxx1998 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 23 2014 at 12:08pm
Well said Ducky. 

He's not that smart taking his time to explain something that he doesn't understand.  Who is the chicken and who is the egg.  The "fact" that black women hate each other is a myth in itself.  Spend 1 day around yt women and come to the conclusion that they also hate each other.  Men explaining why women do what we do is nothing short of hilarious. 

The real question is why does everyone else hate US?  Too fckn fly for those who don't have the honor of being us!  Maybe next (life)timeHug 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote Derri Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 23 2014 at 12:14pm
Black women 'don't like each other' for the same reason people don't like each other.

It's not a black woman thing, it is a human thing.

It is not being aware that our world is an interdependent one, and when we think into words into actions, we essentially create them unto ourselves.

If we all realized that being kind and compassionate doesn't just
benefit the other person, but ourselves too, then our world would be much more pleasant...and not just for black women.

C'mon. Use your noodle. (Referring to the guy in the vid, of course. I think I must specify that considering..)

Edited by Derri - Mar 23 2014 at 12:27pm
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Originally posted by SeducTress SeducTress wrote:


I actually cringe when I hear black women say they don't get along with other women.

This. 

Plus nowadays people don't even have to say that. Their actions speak louder than words. I've seen way too many situations on here and off the web to know that this "phenomena" exist. Whats scary is that people would swear up and down that it ain't true and will get mad as hell if you shed light on it. 




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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

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I was just talking to a friend about this the other day. Im sorry but i can never see myself having exclusively male friends.  most of my friends now are male now and i really dont like it. i have 1 female friend and i cling to her for dear life Unhappy
Awww-- bummer, eanaj. I couldn't imagine and the women that unusually declare how they hate/don't like to be around other women are usually their own problem. They like to think themselves different when they perpetuate many of the stereotypes they claim to loathe so much.

Eta: ducky summed it up perfectly

Edited by nekamarie83 - Mar 23 2014 at 12:29pm
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My coworker said she likes me even tho she doesn't usually get along with females... I cant understand that... theres no way im gonna hang with a group of men over women. I have a little more in common with women than men
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote SoutherNtellect Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 23 2014 at 12:41pm
what an interesting thing to post on a women's forum, whereby if we didnt get along (minus talk talk talk), this place couldn't exist 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 23 2014 at 12:51pm
i didnt watch.. 

but yea i think it has something to do with many women viewing each other as competition.. 

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (4) Thanks(4)   Quote Gkisses Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 23 2014 at 12:53pm
I have no issue with most ppl.however i do find it humorous that some men love to say how women are supposedly negative each other and how men dont behave in similar fashion...which is damn lie. Anyway, i like most ppl until given a reason not to.
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