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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote carolina cutie Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 11:53am
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Brothas love light skin especially if you look mixed where I'm at so I think the rule applies to babies and kids at least it did in my family.
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For the record I am light skinned and look WAY better when I have a nice tan. I barely need any makeup when tanned.
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Why would your initial thought be that he thinks her daughter is cuter than yours because she is light skinned? 
If you hooked them up, then he could be just doing it for extra brownie points. You know you gotta accept the child in order to date the mother. 
The whole skin color thing wouldn't have even crossed my mind unless it was something I was insecure about. So as someone else said..please don't project your insecurities on your child. 
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Originally posted by Merin Merin wrote:

For the record I am light skinned and look WAY better when I have a nice tan. I barely need any makeup when tanned.
 
Let me look at a few of your pics.
 
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A lot of Brothas love the Lite skinsss 
a lot of Ladies love the dark skinsss

and thus I focus on getting money.
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Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

A lot of Brothas love the Lite skinsss 
a lot of Ladies love the dark skinsss

and thus I focus on getting money.


ah ha, yeah!
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When see I light skin or dark skin I just see one color, Dark and Light is beautiful to me, I didnt really grew up with this kind of ingorance, anyway I will just leave it at that..
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I honestly can't relate. My daughter is dark and I swear I cannot go anywhere without people men women gushing over her. When someone is really beautiful all that color stuff goes out the window. I get lots of compliments from light skin women who have light skin babies. My daughter makes people do double takes and shes only five. I'm not bragging but if people see something they like they will gush or someone is uniquely beautiful. Now the light dark stuff does exists but in the case of my daughter I have not seen it once since she has been born. Only lots of praises from everyone. It gets only my nerves at times but I have not seen dark skin hate.
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^^Girl it will come in time. I used to be one of those babies people would stop in the grocery stores as well. 

But children are cut throat and will try their best to tear her down because of her color. I made sure any comment that was made about my color was met with a backhand. Mind you I was an ignant ass 10 year old and I have changed lol, but you get the point. 
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