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^I don't see how they could be bitter. I mean, it's not hard to make a child. Just go unprotected lol. I had a friend whenever something happens...well I'm a mom, I'm a mother. Me and my other friends would be like, b you aren't special. You didn't do anything that other people haven't done. :)
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Originally posted by KottonKandy KottonKandy wrote:

^I don't see how they could be bitter. I mean, it's not hard to make a child. Just go unprotected lol. I had a friend whenever something happens...well I'm a mom, I'm a mother. Me and my other friends would be like, b you aren't special. You didn't do anything that other people haven't done. :)
but you aren't either.

That's my point, both extremes baffle me.
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^I do know some 30+women like that. They can't wait to shout how they are single w/no kids.. But I personally know they get a lump in their throat & green w/envy when they see others that do. Or speak of other friends/associates with such a bitter tone.
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Originally posted by Fraiche2Death Fraiche2Death wrote:

^I do know some 30+women like that. They can't wait to shout how they are single w/no kids.. But I personally know they get a lump in their throat & green w/envy when they see others that do. Or speak of other friends/associates with such a bitter tone.


Yep, I see it quite often and it's sad. I have a friend who does it, but those late night phone calls about her wishing she had a family by now...

I'm glad she can't see my face when she does it.
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Originally posted by KottonKandy KottonKandy wrote:

^I don't see how they could be bitter. I mean, it's not hard to make a child. Just go unprotected lol. I had a friend whenever something happens...well I'm a mom, I'm a mother. Me and my other friends would be like, b you aren't special. You didn't do anything that other people haven't done. :)

lol I'm sure most women who are bitter about not being married and having kids by the age they want ain't looking to JUST get knocked up though. They want the full package which means marriage along with them babies. These days it's easier to get knocked up than it is to get a dude to put a ring on it without practically begging.
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I understand that niecy, but both parties failed the timeline game, imo. Since that's what makes it honorable.


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Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by KottonKandy KottonKandy wrote:

^I don't see how they could be bitter. I mean, it's not hard to make a child. Just go unprotected lol. I had a friend whenever something happens...well I'm a mom, I'm a mother. Me and my other friends would be like, b you aren't special. You didn't do anything that other people haven't done. :)
but you aren't either.

That's my point, both extremes baffle me.

but I'm not bitter at either one. But some seem to be bitter about me being childless. Apparently it's hard for some to stay childless. How many "unplanned pregnancy" have MANY women have had. I'm 30, never been. I think I'm special for knowing I didn't want kids at the moment and taking advantage of the options out there not to get pregnant. A lot of people seem not to understand how not to get pregnant. Heart
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Originally posted by KottonKandy KottonKandy wrote:

but I'm not bitter at either one. But some seem to be bitter about me being childless. Apparently it's hard for some to stay childless. How many "unplanned pregnancy" have MANY women have had. I'm 30, never been. I think I'm special for knowing I didn't want kids at the moment and taking advantage of the options out there not to get pregnant. A lot of people seem not to understand how not to get pregnant. Heart


Of course you do. lol
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Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by KottonKandy KottonKandy wrote:

but I'm not bitter at either one. But some seem to be bitter about me being childless. Apparently it's hard for some to stay childless. How many "unplanned pregnancy" have MANY women have had. I'm 30, never been. I think I'm special for knowing I didn't want kids at the moment and taking advantage of the options out there not to get pregnant. A lot of people seem not to understand how not to get pregnant. Heart


Of course you do. lol

LOL I can just imagine the tone of voice this would've been said in.
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They can definitely be bitter. When I had my daughter one of my closest friends turned on me mid pregnancy. LOL I guess she felt I was living the dream. Baby girl, career etc. She was one bitter frigid bitch until she finally got a family/man of her own. And no, everyone can't create life & everyone isn't good at the mom thing. It's special every time. Some people can't help but verbally express that warrior mother feeling. (They get on my damn nerves though)
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