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The people I know with kids has no racial bias.
Every damn body has kids.
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

My friends have no kids and are finishing up school or already graduated starting on the next stage.

But there were only 12 of us.
The rest of my class is a different story


oh yeah, there are those that have multiple kids and such but since they weren't in my circle I don't really think about them

I only know of their current situation via facebook
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote jonesable Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 07 2013 at 8:50am
I think goal setting deters having babies tbh.
I don't see how a child would fit into my life right now.
That's more than a decade up the road.

I know of exceptions there too though.
One girl from my class has two babies in med school.

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ms_wonderland Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 07 2013 at 8:55am
My best friend had her first baby when we were 16. It was awkward bc I wasn't even really thinking about sex yet she had a baby...

Our friendship kinda dissolved after a couple yrs. she had her 2nd one at 18.
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Because it's a cycle and they don't know any better. Chances are that their moms were young and unmarried when they had them and their siblings too so this is normal to them and they see nothing wrong with it. They also probably don't care much about being successful. What pisses me off is when they think they can behave the same way as before they had the child and neglect them by bringing random guys who just wanna hit around them and stuff. People need to accept that you have to make sacrifices for a child and if you're not willing to give up your youth yet, then you shouldn't be having them for the child's sake.
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Originally posted by Cream1970 Cream1970 wrote:

Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:


Originally posted by Cream1970 Cream1970 wrote:

Because SOME Black people encourage failure. There was a study done once....lol


Link?


I don't have it and I'm on my cell. Bunny has it though.


OkayLOL.  But do you remember what it was called because I have a genuine interest in actually reading it and the book that was mentioned in the thread.  I thought you were referring to something like the "crabs in a barrel" analogy and looking at a study would be interesting.

Bun got folks suspicious as hell huhDead
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I've heard a few times that teen pregnancy rates in the US are down but still behind other countries.  We are way behind on education too so I'm sure there is some correlation.  
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Naturalchick30 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 07 2013 at 9:08am
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


Originally posted by Cream1970 Cream1970 wrote:

Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:


Originally posted by Cream1970 Cream1970 wrote:

Because SOME Black people encourage failure. There was a study done once....lol


Link?


I don't have it and I'm on my cell. Bunny has it though.






Lmao
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that study was probably done by the KKK
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