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@ Kfoxx...exactly.
That can be said about American Culture in general.
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Posted: Mar 06 2013 at 4:31pm |
 modelbusiness82 wrote:
kfoxx1998 wrote:
sache1991 wrote:
Going by sheer numbers...of course whites use more gov. assistance, but it were going by percentage I'd be willing to bet blacks and Hispanics are on it more.
BTW, who cares what white people problems are? There is no need to compare ourselves to them...let's handle our own community first.
The black community as a whole still has a juvenile mentality...maybe we need another MLK or black leader.  |
Just about equal to their incarceration numbers.
The 2nd bolded doesnt even make sense.
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Can't even believe I'm agreeing with anything sache says...
But the 2nd bolded DOES make sense. In the hood (not necessarily with upwardly mobile members of the black community), there's a culture of "get money - spend money", showing off, keeping up with the jones', not focusing on the future and living in the moment to the point that you don't plan for the "what if's" of life.
It's juvenile & ignorant to link up with a dude that you've seen hook up with five other girls on your block - yet these girls do it all the time. It's ignorant to have unprotected sex with girls you don't even like AND shoot off in them without caring about the consequences as long as "you get that nut off". It's juvenile to nurture a culture of "let's get in a fight and video tape it so we can post it to WSHH" youth.
^^^All of that is a juvenile mentality that is glorified in the lower income community and music - specifically hiphop which is what most people in the neighborhoods are listening to.
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Let's reference the "grammar" thread you made...the intention was good, but delivery was bad....Bill Cosby-ish. We hate being called out on our BS.
Music is a powerful agent....we need to watch what we listen to. Chief Keef and Lil' Mouse...they aren't even grown men rapping about flipping bricks, smashing heauxz and smoking weed. "Popping Molly" is cool. I try to keep the ignorant hype music for the gym only.  I stick to old school R&B and soul.
Also these ignorant shows black women like to support....VH1 and TLC reality shows. 
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Posted: Mar 06 2013 at 4:32pm |
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Sache and Model - The black community is not a monolith. If y'all want to say that HUMANS have a juvenile mentality thats fine. I could make this same stupid argument about the black community and religion and I would be still overstating a small point about the maturity of thoughts and ideas over CULTURE.
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Posted: Mar 06 2013 at 4:32pm |
sexibeach wrote:
you have planned parenthood while it last, until the repub's get rid of them all.. but you can get birth control, but I wonder this question myself.. b/c it use to be if you got pregnant it was a mistake the first time, and you attempt to not allow yourself to be in position again.. b/c you could end up raising this kid alone which makes life a struggle...
but when you're 21 and got 3 kids already, and no mate your freedom is limited.. I would think outside of the finances that it takes, the fact that your freedom is pretty much gone for 18 years, now that should encourage you not to continue having more kids.. but it doesn't really matter, being young and having a life doesn't rate much anymore..
Which also brings me to the realization of why there are so many black kids in the system of child protection, b/c you can't run after a man and really give your child the care they need..There are so many African American parents getting their kids snatched, and rights terminated its really sad to me.. they are having these kids but they are taking them, b/c they aren't providing for them getting caught up in drugs, men, and running the streets.. There are so many grand parents adopting and raising these kids b/c the parents aren't.. |
this is a huge problem we should discuss...i wish there was more family support so these children wouldn't have to be in foster care. but the gov will also try to find a way for the family to be unfit.
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Posted: Mar 06 2013 at 4:33pm |
sexibeach wrote:
you have planned parenthood while it last, until the repub's get rid of them all.. but you can get birth control, but I wonder this question myself.. b/c it use to be if you got pregnant it was a mistake the first time, and you attempt to not allow yourself to be in position again.. b/c you could end up raising this kid alone which makes life a struggle...
but when you're 21 and got 3 kids already, and no mate your freedom is limited.. I would think outside of the finances that it takes, the fact that your freedom is pretty much gone for 18 years, now that should encourage you not to continue having more kids.. but it doesn't really matter, being young and having a life doesn't rate much anymore..
Which also brings me to the realization of why there are so many black kids in the system of child protection, b/c you can't run after a man and really give your child the care they need..There are so many African American parents getting their kids snatched, and rights terminated its really sad to me.. they are having these kids but they are taking them, b/c they aren't providing for them getting caught up in drugs, men, and running the streets.. There are so many grand parents adopting and raising these kids b/c the parents aren't.. |
PP was originally intended to wipe us out...by sterilizing our black women. Check how these crackkkas here and in Europe always giving vaccines and sh*t to Africa. They up to something. 
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Posted: Mar 06 2013 at 4:34pm |
nitabug wrote:
@ Kfoxx...exactly.
That can be said about American Culture in general.
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It can...but when you examine the potential lifestyle
negatives on a racial perspective, (i.e. incarceration, achievement gap,
unemployment, single parents, etc) somehow black people are getting
beat down by these minuses more/at a higher rate than our racial
counterparts. So, let's stop being PC and call a spade a space.
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Posted: Mar 06 2013 at 4:34pm |
sache1991 wrote:
modelbusiness82 wrote:
kfoxx1998 wrote:
sache1991 wrote:
Going by sheer numbers...of course whites use more gov. assistance, but it were going by percentage I'd be willing to bet blacks and Hispanics are on it more.
BTW, who cares what white people problems are? There is no need to compare ourselves to them...let's handle our own community first.
The black community as a whole still has a juvenile mentality...maybe we need another MLK or black leader. |
Just about equal to their incarceration numbers.
The 2nd bolded doesnt even make sense.
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Can't even believe I'm agreeing with anything sache says...
But the 2nd bolded DOES make sense. In the hood (not necessarily with upwardly mobile members of the black community), there's a culture of "get money - spend money", showing off, keeping up with the jones', not focusing on the future and living in the moment to the point that you don't plan for the "what if's" of life.
It's juvenile & ignorant to link up with a dude that you've seen hook up with five other girls on your block - yet these girls do it all the time. It's ignorant to have unprotected sex with girls you don't even like AND shoot off in them without caring about the consequences as long as "you get that nut off". It's juvenile to nurture a culture of "let's get in a fight and video tape it so we can post it to WSHH" youth.
^^^All of that is a juvenile mentality that is glorified in the lower income community and music - specifically hiphop which is what most people in the neighborhoods are listening to.
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Let's reference the "grammar" thread you made...the intention was good, but delivery was bad....Bill Cosby-ish. We hate being called out on our BS.
Music is a powerful agent....we need to watch what we listen to. Chief Keef and Lil' Mouse...they aren't even grown men rapping about flipping bricks, smashing heauxz and smoking weed. "Popping Molly" is cool. I try to keep the ignorant hype music for the gym only. I stick to old school R&B and soul.
Also these ignorant shows black women like to support....VH1 and TLC reality shows. |
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Posted: Mar 06 2013 at 4:36pm |
modelbusiness82 wrote:
nitabug wrote:
@ Kfoxx...exactly.
That can be said about American Culture in general.
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It can...but when you examine the potential lifestyle
negatives on a racial perspective, (i.e. incarceration, achievement gap,
unemployment, single parents, etc) somehow black people are getting
beat down by these minuses more/at a higher rate than our racial
counterparts.
So, let's stop being PC and call a spade a space.
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When you actually locate the spade, I will, but you got a hand full of clubs and don't know it.
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Posted: Mar 06 2013 at 4:36pm |
ms_wonderland wrote:
sexibeach wrote:
you have planned parenthood while it last, until the repub's get rid of them all.. but you can get birth control, but I wonder this question myself.. b/c it use to be if you got pregnant it was a mistake the first time, and you attempt to not allow yourself to be in position again.. b/c you could end up raising this kid alone which makes life a struggle...
but when you're 21 and got 3 kids already, and no mate your freedom is limited.. I would think outside of the finances that it takes, the fact that your freedom is pretty much gone for 18 years, now that should encourage you not to continue having more kids.. but it doesn't really matter, being young and having a life doesn't rate much anymore..
Which also brings me to the realization of why there are so many black kids in the system of child protection, b/c you can't run after a man and really give your child the care they need..There are so many African American parents getting their kids snatched, and rights terminated its really sad to me.. they are having these kids but they are taking them, b/c they aren't providing for them getting caught up in drugs, men, and running the streets.. There are so many grand parents adopting and raising these kids b/c the parents aren't.. |
this is a huge problem we should discuss...i wish there was more family support so these children wouldn't have to be in foster care. but the gov will also try to find a way for the family to be unfit.
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it already is a problem, Dept of Child services disqualify most grand parents, they have to take their foster care program (pay for it) to even get their own grand kids once they get in the system.. so basically its like when they broke up the family in slave time by sending them every where and not with the family.. They would rather a foster family adopt those black kids then their own grand parents and/or family.. its a serious problem..
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Posted: Mar 06 2013 at 4:37pm |
modelbusiness82 wrote:
nitabug wrote:
@ Kfoxx...exactly.
That can be said about American Culture in general.
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It can...but when you examine the potential lifestyle
negatives on a racial perspective, (i.e. incarceration, achievement gap,
unemployment, single parents, etc) somehow black people are getting
beat down by these minuses more/at a higher rate than our racial
counterparts.
So, let's stop being PC and call a spade a space.
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None of which has anything to do with their level of maturity as a community and EVERYTHING thing to do with things that have already been said in this very thread.
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