Black Hair Media Forum Homepage
BHM BHM BHM
Forum Home Forum Home > Lets Talk > Talk, Talk, and More Talk (Newbies)
  New Posts New Posts RSS Feed - why do i look so different from rest of family
  FAQ FAQ  Forum Search   Register Register  Login Login
Extensions Plus
 

why do i look so different from rest of family

 
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  123>






Author
directioner :) View Drop Down
New Member
New Member


Joined: Jun 24 2013
Status: Offline
Points: 52
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote directioner :) Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Topic: why do i look so different from rest of family
    Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 5:09pm
most of mi familia look very different from me
i have 2 sisters 1 brother mother father
they all light skinned with almond eyes thin nose oval face and eyes except my dad is caramel with round face (weight gain)
my cousins all light skinned to brown skin
only 3 relatives are dark but they have hooded almond eyes and thin nose

i think i'm adopted
i'm dark with wide nose wide face and round eyes

i wish i looked like my family i feel beneath them i know it sound stupid
why did i get the bad genes
Back to Top
Sponsored Links


Back to Top
directioner :) View Drop Down
New Member
New Member


Joined: Jun 24 2013
Status: Offline
Points: 52
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote directioner :) Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 5:10pm
how can i feel better
Back to Top
Princess_BBW View Drop Down
Guest Group
Guest Group
Avatar

Joined: Jun 23 2013
Status: Offline
Points: 298
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Princess_BBW Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 5:15pm
are you a male or female?Post a pic so we can see and help.
Back to Top
directioner :) View Drop Down
New Member
New Member


Joined: Jun 24 2013
Status: Offline
Points: 52
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote directioner :) Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 5:24pm
girl and not me but i look lot like her my eyes tiny bit bigger


my sisters and mom look a lot like this


Edited by directioner :) - Jun 24 2013 at 5:28pm
Back to Top
BBpants View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Aug 24 2011
Location: No1curr
Status: Offline
Points: 196570
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote BBpants Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 7:43pm
You might be adopted. You should start looking for your real parents right now!


Good luck! Hug


Stern Smile
Back to Top
prittyhurr View Drop Down
Junior Member
Junior Member
Avatar

Joined: Jun 04 2013
Status: Offline
Points: 860
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote prittyhurr Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 8:37pm
There is a such thing called recessive genes. For example, two parents with brown eyes can have a blue eyed child if they both carry the recessive genes for blue eyes. Without getting into biology 355, I will just put it in simple terms and say that we all carry so much variation in our DNA and when you reproduce with someone, it is a cr*p shoot. Anyway, it is not about how you look. It is about what is inside. Even if you are adopted (which I seriously doubt), blood does not make a family. Those who have taken care of you for all of these years are your family.
Back to Top
directioner :) View Drop Down
New Member
New Member


Joined: Jun 24 2013
Status: Offline
Points: 52
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote directioner :) Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 25 2013 at 2:43am
it's not fair
why did i have to be born
Back to Top
starliteboo View Drop Down
VIP Member
VIP Member
Avatar

Joined: Oct 27 2010
Location: cloud 9
Status: Offline
Points: 9052
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote starliteboo Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 25 2013 at 6:25am
You need to work on your self esteem issues, and see the beauty within yourself and stop measuring your beauty against those in your family. Adopted or not you should love yourself.
Back to Top
KhadiNiaomi View Drop Down
VIP Member
VIP Member
Avatar

Joined: Aug 15 2010
Location: US - Florida
Status: Offline
Points: 6812
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (4) Thanks(4)   Quote KhadiNiaomi Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 25 2013 at 6:59am
The picture of the girl underneath looks like you though. Your not ugly, it just sounds like you dont want to look black. 
Back to Top
nitabug View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member


Joined: Sep 25 2008
Status: Offline
Points: 285680
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote nitabug Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 25 2013 at 7:26am
Originally posted by directioner :) directioner :) wrote:

it's not fair
why did i have to be born
The same reason you look the way you do. It's science and it doesn't matter. You aren't diseased. 
Back to Top
Get Longer Healthier Faster Growing Hair
Get Healthier Stronger Longer Hair
Glam Twinz
Weave Connection
Human Hair Wigs
Wefting Training
Brazilian Hair
Brazilian Hair
Wig and Hair Extension on Amazon
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  123>
  Share Topic   

Forum Jump Forum Permissions View Drop Down