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When I went to church, I'm not sure there was a blind eye to fornication. When one of the members of the choir got pregnant outside of marriage, they sat her down and she wasn't allowed to be a part of any of the service.

They preached against it. I remember a lot of sermons about getting over the spirit of lust. They just didn't crusade against it. That's usually reserved for other "sins" like homosexuality.
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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

When I went to church, I'm not sure there was a blind eye to fornication. When one of the members of the choir got pregnant outside of marriage, they sat her down and she wasn't allowed to be a part of any of the service.

They preached against it. I remember a lot of sermons about getting over the spirit of lust. They just didn't crusade against it. That's usually reserved for other "sins" like homosexuality.
Yep that's old school church. Back in the day they called in backsliding, basicly if they could see you sin, no choir for you, no usher board, no missionary...no nothing. The old mothers would get you in a corner or at the grocery store lol and it was a wrap. The old mothers been saying "have a seat."
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Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

At op serious question, if a fine Black/Asian woman said let me smash. You wouldn't have sex with her?
no but sex isnt bad just outside of marraige

Josephus, do you masturbate? Is it okay by the Bible to masturbate?
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No bindy i dont masturbate. It creates unhealthy thoughts and puts you in the mind set to fornicate. I only ejaculate through the occasional wet dream
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churches are turning a blind eye?
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Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

Jo, are you still working with the witnesses??
Don't they disfellowship you for "getting it in" outside of marriage??

I don't think church blind eyes fornication, many churches try to teach a way of life where it isn't acceptable. First the church has to draw the sinner in and you can't draw them by condemnation.
yes i am and they do disfellowship for fornication while other churches ignore it all together or do nothing

I understand keeping God's house clean however we are imperfect beings and if a mistake is made it's between that person and God. 
We do have the ability to repent if we are truly making a change. 
I just don't understand confessing and explaining my sins to the elders. I Doubt the watchtower committee will stand in for anyone during judgment.

Religion can be hateful, it separates and I doubt that was Jesus' intention.
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Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

No bindy i dont masturbate. It creates unhealthy thoughts and puts you in the mind set to fornicate. I only ejaculate through the occasional wet dream

That sounds miserable. Ouch

I went to a Christian school that would kick girls out of school if they got pregnant. I found this extremely stupid and raised the point to my Bible teacher. The boys were never expelled. 

Also seems kinda anti-Christ like to preach down to or ostracize people for sinning...since we all are considered sinners according to the Bible. You would think the church would embrace those who sinned as they would need support and guidance more than anyone. You can do all of that without condoning the sin. That's what JESUS would do. 

......some churches serve themselves...not Christ. 
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