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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

She look like them aboriginals.



She clearly looks mixed and I would have pegged her as 'of West Indian' descent immediately

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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Yep. She lets men use her for sex ... and then tries to make it seem like these things are happening to her because she is a Black woman and they are White men.

Noooo any nan ...geesh ALL MEN will use you for sex .. if you let them.
All she's got to do is to say NO to each and every one of them ... and let the CHASE begin. If that guy can date her exclusively for 3 - 4 months .. then she knows she's got a guy that wants her and not just what's between her legs.
Maybe she is young, has self esteem issues, is lonely or whatever and that causes her to sleep with them too soon and then they dump her but ALL MEN DO THIS S***.
Just say NO.


She is most likely very young. Instead of grinding on white/black/any other guys in the club/bar, etc. and messing with low-quality guys who have gfs, when she's ready she will need to raise her standards and expect men to approach her in a decent manner (preferably during the daytime lol). Don't seek the approval of men who haven't proven their value to you by putting yourself out there.

I went to a bar last weekend (I come to dance and drink with my girls, not grind on randoms) , this random black guy was pushing up on me at the bar, I shut that down swiftly. Similarly, a few months ago this white guy was all up in my face trying to talk to me--I shut him down too and he stomped off. It's all about what you will and will not allow.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote afrokock Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 26 2013 at 7:22am
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Edited by afrokock - Jul 26 2013 at 7:23am
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Merin Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 26 2013 at 7:51am
Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Shes mixed with Indian and Acuvue ... hatas wanna hate on her exotical swag


I'm done



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These threads never fail to be the "other" extreme. Never
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This article made no sense to me.  The comments confused me more.  I gotta get back to the break room before all the donuts are gone.
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Okay let me just type and see if this comes out the way I want it to.

At first I want to blame this mess of an article and shoot-miss self analysis on her age but I know young woman with a lot of emotional and sexual maturity and older woman with very little of either. 

She almost made it to understanding the dynamics of stereotypes propagated by the white apologists, maybe she took a course, but then she veered off into trying to explain away her own behavior and define them through her bad relationship experiences.  Shockingly becky made a few good points but completely separate from what the author is actually upset about.  There is some self -loathing going on that is clouding her ability to do this topic justice.  

So she specifically has a lot of growing to do.  This child is trying to have a public therapy session.  I hope she gets out of the fog and finds some clarity.   She's confusing her own damn self. 

That's all I got. 
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They were nvr in for me....I read half the article
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@mswonderland, newdiva
I took the pic down cuz I felt bad that I was contributing to the picking apart of her looks.
Plus anyone coulda found that pic if they wanted to. Sang found another.

@theothers So now that we "proved" her mixedness... Does that give her article credence or what?

@thatgurld don't even bother lol. I'd like a blueberry donut if at all possible
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Not with that wide nose.. Allegedly..
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