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I wonder how many she slept with
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The fact that one of her partners had a gf makes me feel like none of these men have ever taken her out or such, she just sleeps with them

She's probably also mad she let herself get taken advantage of
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Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

You are?

I'm not .. Lol

 

right?
I'm saying..

"How dare ye try to negatively portray massa?"

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Originally posted by CherryBlossom CherryBlossom wrote:

lol I thought we were gonna talk about whites objectification of woc...I forgot where I was for a minute
aww bless

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Yep. She lets men use her for sex ... and then tries to make it seem like these things are happening to her because she is a Black woman and they are White men.

Noooo any nan ...geesh ALL MEN will use you for sex .. if you let them.
All she's got to do is to say NO to each and every one of them ... and let the CHASE begin. If that guy can date her exclusively for 3 - 4 months .. then she knows she's got a guy that wants her and not just what's between her legs.
Maybe she is young, has self esteem issues, is lonely or whatever and that causes her to sleep with them too soon and then they dump her but ALL MEN DO THIS S***.
Just say NO.
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Originally posted by juicifruit89 juicifruit89 wrote:

Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:


PLEASE PEOPLE!
Now what is the diifference between a whole bunch of White men lusting and objectiifying a Black woman ... and a whole bunch of Black guys lusting and objectifying .... a White woman. Confused 
 
Men are men .. and men are always lusting and objectifying women and ALWAYS on the lookout for sex from someone that looks .. different. What .... BLACK men are differeent than this? Hee hee! Now that would funny of it were not so stupid.LOL
 
I think the writer of this article is not living in the real world if she is surprised that White men in Toronto or White men .. anywhere don't wanna F her. DUH!
 
Heck, how about all the Black men don't give a darn about her ... and just wanna F her too? What ...  when they lust and objectify her .. it's okay?
 
What do you think happen when someone like Heidi Klum goes to Senegal? Yep, a whole lot of Black guys will be trailing behind her .. trying to figure out a why to have an 'experience'. It's human nature.
 
If she is foolish enough to believe that there are no White men that are actually interested in her for a real relationship ... she is again deluding herself because (just like Black men) ... every White guy is not trying to use her for sex.  DUH! .See has to learn how to filter out all the losers that want to use her. Same thing with Black men
 
Unreal and immature expectations about life and ... she is hee hee! PARANOID which is never a good thing.
 
She needs to grow up.  Thumbs Up And stop expecting men not to lust for women ALL WOMEN - Black/mixed /asian you name it women included. DUH!




Just like there are some black men out there that like lighter-skinned women because of their 'exoticness', there are some white men that are drawn to women that are 'exotic' to them. We know that there are IR couples that are married, so I think the author in the OP just has had a different experience than seriously dating IR couples.
 
Correct.
 
95% of my girlfriends are in IR marriages .. this happens the world over! Hee hee!
 
I JUST went salsa dancing last night and the darkest girl in there .. look to be from The Sudan .. like Alex Wek (very Black) was pulling all the guys.
 
Even MY date had to comment on how beaautiful she looked and I am like Oprahs color.
 
Men like different stuff. She can take her pick of men and if they try to get her in bed ... she can crook her finger and go on to the next guy. ONE of those guys would love to marry her.
 
Can it be any different for a Heidi Klum type of White in the middle of Ghana? Noooo same thing.
 
People in this thread just do not understand the male mindset. It's ignorance to try to make the Black woman a 'victim' in this kind of stuff.


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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

She look like them aboriginals.



She clearly looks mixed and I would have pegged her as 'of West Indian' descent immediately

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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Yep. She lets men use her for sex ... and then tries to make it seem like these things are happening to her because she is a Black woman and they are White men.

Noooo any nan ...geesh ALL MEN will use you for sex .. if you let them.
All she's got to do is to say NO to each and every one of them ... and let the CHASE begin. If that guy can date her exclusively for 3 - 4 months .. then she knows she's got a guy that wants her and not just what's between her legs.
Maybe she is young, has self esteem issues, is lonely or whatever and that causes her to sleep with them too soon and then they dump her but ALL MEN DO THIS S***.
Just say NO.


She is most likely very young. Instead of grinding on white/black/any other guys in the club/bar, etc. and messing with low-quality guys who have gfs, when she's ready she will need to raise her standards and expect men to approach her in a decent manner (preferably during the daytime lol). Don't seek the approval of men who haven't proven their value to you by putting yourself out there.

I went to a bar last weekend (I come to dance and drink with my girls, not grind on randoms) , this random black guy was pushing up on me at the bar, I shut that down swiftly. Similarly, a few months ago this white guy was all up in my face trying to talk to me--I shut him down too and he stomped off. It's all about what you will and will not allow.
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