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    Posted: Jul 30 2009 at 3:28pm
This is in regards to the " Would you date a bisexual dude" thread.
 
I saw a lot of responses saying that a bi-guy is just a gay guy in denial. Or if you sleep with men your gay.
 
I'm just wondering why a girl can enjoy both and be considered  bisexual. But if a guy does the same he's gay. I mean if he's sleeping with both he must like both (imo). The average gay guy that I met is not attracted to women, and wouldnt touch them sexually with a 10ft poleLOL. So why the double standard.
 
 
 
 
For the record NO I would not date a Bisexual guy...
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 30 2009 at 3:31pm
lol, i know what a double standard, huh?


eta: oh and my answer is the same one as the poster below mine........



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 30 2009 at 3:33pm
I think that its possible if you have a attraction to both sexes.Why not?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 30 2009 at 3:34pm
Well they can be considered Bi but most women wont accept them.  I would not knowingly date a bi man.  I dont find it sexy or appealing.  Which will probably be the case for most women.  Where men find it sexy.  Because they think they are not stuck with the same woman for the rest of their life.  They think they can just ask their Bi woman to go get a girl for them. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 30 2009 at 3:36pm
i think more men are bisexual than hetero women would like to think. i imagine most humans are closer to bisexual on the sexuality continuum than on polar ends. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 30 2009 at 3:38pm
Well it is a double standard....just depends on how pple perceive it. I would not date a bi man knowingly....to me he's gay. If I had a bi friend that was a woman she is also gay....just society is more accepting because she is a woman.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 30 2009 at 3:38pm
Originally posted by sexipink sexipink wrote:

This is in regards to the " Would you date a bisexual dude" thread.
 
I saw a lot of responses saying that a bi-guy is just a gay guy in denial. Or if you sleep with men your gay.
 
I'm just wondering why a girl can enjoy both and be considered  bisexual. But if a guy does the same he's gay. I mean if he's sleeping with both he must like both (imo). The average gay guy that I met is not attracted to women, and wouldnt touch them sexually with a 10ft poleLOL. So why the double standard.
 
 
 
 
For the record NO I would not date a Bisexual guy...
 
 
You didnt get the memo?  This is BHM there is ALWAYS a double standard in regards to men on here.LOL
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 30 2009 at 3:41pm
it's just one of those double standards.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 30 2009 at 3:43pm
I think a bisexual man is gay. Double standards suck, but it is what is it.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 30 2009 at 3:44pm
I think if more bisexual men came on here they would go gay LOL
 
And to the OP trust me, there are plenty of women who are not gonna have a double standard or issue in regards to it.  I still get propositioned to this day and Im definately not bi.  People are attracted to what they are attracted to thats how I look at it from everyones POV.


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