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AriesBabe09 
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 Posted: Jan 05 2013 at 10:31pm |
Pardon me.....the majority I have met.
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tamela10289
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Posted: Jan 12 2013 at 11:55pm |
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I slightly disagree with some of these post. I've been in that same mind set before, but the past year or so my views have changed. I've noticed that the "arrogant" type of guys was the guy that I was going for at that time in my life. I didn't realize it until recently. The nice ones with some type of d@mn sense I unknowingly turned down, or sabotaged the relationship. So it may not be that's it most black men are arrogant, it's just the type of men you are allowing into your space. If you want better stop settling for less.
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BoutThatLife
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Posted: Jan 13 2013 at 8:43pm |
 ImThatDiva wrote:
BoutThatLife wrote:
I will just say this:
Its very interesting that when a black woman generalizes black men on a female message board, most people come in and tell the woman she shouldn't be generalizing, etc
But ever lurk a black make message board? Do they do the same when negative things are said about black women? |
So we should do the same thing? Just make the circle go round and round? Because we all know that's how problems get fixed, by adding to it.
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I just find it very work horse-ish to constantly take on the burden of extending themselves to people, who on average, don't do the same in return. Problems get fixed if both parties decide to compromise and work on it. Not if one party is sh*tting on the other and the other party is browbeaten when they tell their perspective.
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Posted: Jan 13 2013 at 9:33pm |
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Hmm
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Addicted19034
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 3:44pm |
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There are a lot of decent black men out there. You need to start figuring out why you are attracting a certain type. Just because YOU have trouble attracting good black men doesn't mean they don't exist.Go ahead and date non black men but I bet you'll still attract the same dirt bags. smh at you thinking non black men are innately better |
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tamela10289
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 3:49pm |
Addicted19034 wrote:
leftywefty wrote:
There are a lot of decent black men out there. You need to start figuring out why you are attracting a certain type. Just because YOU have trouble attracting good black men doesn't mean they don't exist.Go ahead and date non black men but I bet you'll still attract the same dirt bags. smh at you thinking non black men are innately better |
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100% agreed
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Posted: Jan 21 2013 at 10:51am |
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Aside from the very generalized assumption of men being highly arrogant, I honestly feel that WOMEN are the arrogant ones these days- driven by societal expectations and standards. ( Although that applies to BOTH genders)
Edited by Grapes25 - Jan 21 2013 at 10:51am
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thebombdotkom
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Posted: Jan 31 2013 at 2:32pm |
BoutThatLife wrote:
I will just say this:
Its very interesting that when a black woman generalizes black men on a female message board, most people come in and tell the woman she shouldn't be generalizing, etc
But ever lurk a black make message board? Do they do the same when negative things are said about black women? |
This all day. I don't understand why black women continue to defend and support black men when all they do is sh*t all over us.
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Posted: Feb 06 2013 at 1:13pm |
thebombdotkom wrote:
BoutThatLife wrote:
I will just say this:
Its very interesting that when a black woman generalizes black men on a female message board, most people come in and tell the woman she shouldn't be generalizing, etc
But ever lurk a black make message board? Do they do the same when negative things are said about black women? |
This all day.
I don't understand why black women continue to defend and support black men when all they do is sh*t all over us.
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Nothing like being racist against your own people.
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Posted: Feb 19 2013 at 4:10pm |
Addicted19034 wrote:
leftywefty wrote:
There are a lot of decent black men out there. You need to start figuring out why you are attracting a certain type. Just because YOU have trouble attracting good black men doesn't mean they don't exist.
Go ahead and date non black men but I bet you'll still attract the same dirt bags. smh at you thinking non black men are innately better |
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Exactly you jus gonna attrack the same type of dude, different color.
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