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Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Originally posted by AriesBabe09 AriesBabe09 wrote:

Originally posted by Majesty02 Majesty02 wrote:

Nah. Its not that deep everyone. I love black men, and will never entirely give up on them. Not all are the same yes I know. I was just vex that day, so I came on BHM to vent. But I'm good now Wink
 
I have those days too...I love blk men but right now I'm mad at them however I won't allow myslef to give up on them totally..... although the majority act the way you mentioned in your first post.


you've met the majority of black men?
 
Pardon me.....the majority I have met.
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I slightly disagree with some of these post. I've been in that same mind set before, but the past year or so my views have changed. I've noticed that the "arrogant" type of guys was the guy that I was going for at that time in my life. I didn't realize it until recently. The nice ones with some type of d@mn sense I unknowingly turned down, or sabotaged the relationship. So it may not be that's it most black men are arrogant, it's just the type of men you are allowing into your space. If you want better stop settling for less.
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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by BoutThatLife BoutThatLife wrote:

I will just say this:

Its very interesting that when a black woman generalizes black men on a female message board, most people come in and tell the woman she shouldn't be generalizing, etc

But ever lurk a black make message board? Do they do the same when negative things are said about black women?
So we should do the same thing? Just make the circle go round and round? Because we all know that's how problems get fixed, by adding to it.


I just find it very work horse-ish to constantly take on the burden of extending themselves to people, who on average, don't do the same in return.

Problems get fixed if both parties decide to compromise and work on it. Not if one party is sh*tting on the other and the other party is browbeaten when they tell their perspective.
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Hmm
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There are a lot of decent black men out there. You need to start figuring out why you are attracting a certain type. Just because YOU have trouble attracting good black men doesn't mean they don't exist.
Go ahead and date non black men but I bet you'll still attract the same dirt bags. smh at you thinking non black men are innately better



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Originally posted by leftywefty leftywefty wrote:


There are a lot of decent black men out there. You need to start figuring out why you are attracting a certain type. Just because YOU have trouble attracting good black men doesn't mean they don't exist.
Go ahead and date non black men but I bet you'll still attract the same dirt bags. smh at you thinking non black men are innately better



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100% agreed
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Aside from the very generalized assumption of men being highly arrogant, I honestly feel that WOMEN are the arrogant ones these days- driven by societal expectations and standards. ( Although that applies to BOTH genders)

Edited by Grapes25 - Jan 21 2013 at 10:51am
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Originally posted by BoutThatLife BoutThatLife wrote:

I will just say this:

Its very interesting that when a black woman generalizes black men on a female message board, most people come in and tell the woman she shouldn't be generalizing, etc

But ever lurk a black make message board? Do they do the same when negative things are said about black women?


This all day.

I don't understand why black women continue to defend and support black men when all they do is sh*t all over us.
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Originally posted by thebombdotkom thebombdotkom wrote:


Originally posted by BoutThatLife BoutThatLife wrote:

I will just say this:

Its very interesting that when a black woman generalizes black men on a female message board, most people come in and tell the woman she shouldn't be generalizing, etc

But ever lurk a black make message board? Do they do the same when negative things are said about black women?


This all day.

I don't understand why black women continue to defend and support black men when all they do is sh*t all over us.
Nothing like being racist against your own people.
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Originally posted by Addicted19034 Addicted19034 wrote:

Originally posted by leftywefty leftywefty wrote:


There are a lot of decent black men out there. You need to start figuring out why you are attracting a certain type. Just because YOU have trouble attracting good black men doesn't mean they don't exist.
Go ahead and date non black men but I bet you'll still attract the same dirt bags. smh at you thinking non black men are innately better



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Exactly you jus gonna attrack the same type of dude, different color.
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