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Yes JP age is a big factor

If you are in your late 30's/40's and up its a different ballgame because more people are likely to have been married/had kids by then




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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote BBpants Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 8:10pm
Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Single women with kids are damaged goods....Yea I said Stern Smile


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How old are you guys? Shouldn't it depend on circumstances, age, number of kids?


I'm not saying that they can't find someone but they aren't at the top of the list. They are more likely to get passed over for woman without kids.

This applies to men too.
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

 
Yes JP

If you are in your late 30's/40's and up its a different ballgame because more people are likely to have been married/had kids by then




Agreed. Later on, both parties are more likely to have kids as well. But say a woman marries very young, say at 20 and has two kids out of that union. By age 25, she's divorced. Is she still damaged goods in your eyes and condemned to eternal loneliness? Say her husband dies in a car accident? That's a pitiful way to think of one's life, imo.
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there's always hope
if you reading this thread and this is you
somebody out there will want you
there is somebody for everybody 
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i never said anybody was condemned to eternal loneliness

i just said it will be more difficult



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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Single women with kids are damaged goods....Yea I said Stern Smile


LOL

i thanked 


How old are you guys? Shouldn't it depend on circumstances, age, number of kids?


I'm not saying that they can't find someone but they aren't at the top of the list. They are more likely to get passed over for woman without kids.

This applies to men too.


If by top of the list, you mean being pursued by a never-married single man without kids, then maybe. But chances are these folks will end up with people with similar life situations (former marriage or kid or both). There's plenty of those out there considering that 50% of marriages end up in divorce, like I said earlier. I suppose there's a difference between 20 and 35...
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:




i never said anybody was condemned to eternal loneliness

i just said it will be more difficult





I don't think so. I have plenty of friends that are remarried, some of which with blended families. I think it has more to do with one's station in life/age bracket, etc...
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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

 

Agreed. Later on, both parties are more likely to have kids as well. But say a woman marries very young, say at 20 and has two kids out of that union. By age 25, she's divorced. Is she still damaged goods in your eyes and condemned to eternal loneliness? Say her husband dies in a car accident? That's a pitiful way to think of one's life, imo.


my niece was a widow at @23 with a child. She didn't have any problem with men wanting to marry her after that but she didn't remarry til almost 15 years later . I could understand; losing your partner after a short time can make you not want to do it again. 

 Her 2nd husband didn't have any kids.

I'm sure this lady in OP will be fine.

 


Edited by PurplePhase - Jan 15 2014 at 8:28pm
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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Lol, y'all are acting like people never divorce and remarry when it happens all the time. It's a little different from being a baby mama with 5 kids. Sometimes I think bhm is on a time warp.

someone should've given her character the memo!

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote mrshairdo Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 9:04pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


they are damaged goods
but there are men that will wife them...esp if they are "fine" or have a bangin body/booty or have $$$$
the pickings might be slimmer
but its def not impossible

how are they damaged goods if they got divorced tho?

that's harsh

now babymommas on the other hand...
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