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Not I, said the cat.

I don't even like the attire associated with that word (gold chains, saggy pants, etc). Too many Black men in my area dress like this. Even some of the older guys! -_-
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Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

Jimmy nothing I said in any of my posts was sugar coated. I clearly said in my first post that when the guy I dated went missing, it was a wake up call that dating people in certain lifestyles wasn't a fit for me.

So please let me know what in my reply = sugar coating? The fact that I don't nor have I ever dated a man who's pants are around his knees who wears red or blue all the time doesn't = sugar coating. Just that I think pants belong on your waist and no matter who I dated and what they were or weren't into, they needed to be able to move in my social circles without sticking out like a sore thumb.


Sugar coating is excusing/accepting the behaviour just because they "blended" into your circle. Saggy pants were a no no but illegal cash business was okay? 

very telling 


Edited by jimmy_rustle - Jun 11 2013 at 2:52am
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Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

I swear Jimmy only comes on BHM to put down the members (minus his boo Cherry). My dude, didn't you say your time here would be short? Well?
he asked valid questions though.

How is that putting someone down?
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

I swear Jimmy only comes on BHM to put down the members (minus his boo Cherry). My dude, didn't you say your time here would be short? Well?
he asked valid questions though.

How is that putting someone down?
 
Asking, "Is it safe to say you women are reformed hoodrats," constitutes asking a valid question now? Ok. I guess it wasn't a putdown, just an innocent inquiry.
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Yes because y'all were being classy by hanging out with or having a penchant for thugs

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Originally posted by jimmy_rustle jimmy_rustle wrote:

Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

Jimmy nothing I said in any of my posts was sugar coated. I clearly said in my first post that when the guy I dated went missing, it was a wake up call that dating people in certain lifestyles wasn't a fit for me.

So please let me know what in my reply = sugar coating? The fact that I don't nor have I ever dated a man who's pants are around his knees who wears red or blue all the time doesn't = sugar coating. Just that I think pants belong on your waist and no matter who I dated and what they were or weren't into, they needed to be able to move in my social circles without sticking out like a sore thumb.


Sugar coating it is excusing/accepting the behaviour just because they "blended" into your circle. Saggy pants were a no no but illegal cash business was okay? 

very telling 



The point of this thread wasn't to bash the OP or anyone who has dated anyone with a suspect background. It was to show that liking "bad boys" isn't the oddity but rather a norm that several people go through but wisely outgrow as the novelty wears off & the reality of those lifestyles (whether the local hood dude or someone with mafia ties) becomes more apparent.

You sound more offended that I wasn't dating Ray Ray & them with saggy pants from the block than the fact that I was dating a thug in general.
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Liking thugs is the norm?

For who?
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Guuuurl,

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Okay so it's a fluke when women say they like "bad boys". And there aren't entire genres of movies, books & self help shows dedicated to that.

I forgot. Us women don't know ourselves as well as men do.

Carry on.
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never been into thugs.Dead
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