| ModelessDiva wrote:|
I'm interested in the reason why you believe black men dont like the two of you
Jess, and AmyAmyAmy
I find that odd
You can't use the i'm too "weird" or different... even the weirdest of the weird black girls ive seen have a weird black bf to match
There is no such thing as "im too ugly" to find a black guy that's interested in you either
Too fat? Never.
now a lack of confidence might be an issue, but i see black men all the time that LOOK for women with little or no confidence...
So you just can't find your type of black man? Overly white location?
Let me know.
I'm in several "black" oriented org. on campus. I know every black person on campus. Chances are that black dude with the nice locs mostly dated your friend...or a friend of friend.
I go to a PWI in the backwoods/podunk. Last semester, I was the only black person in ALL of my classes.
The black guys say, "I would be mad cool if I just loosened up." The "weird" black guys only date AW and WW.
Truth be told I'm built like a stick and am stiff as
. No rhythm. Can't dance. Dont know current hiphop/rap/pop songs. (This YT girl in class said, "Jess, don't drop that dundundun. I was like...
) Natural hair...dark skin...really tall and thin. These aren't bad things. I'm tellin' it as it is.
White guys approach/ask for numbers/etc, but when it gets to that point they can't get over the fact that I'm black. Every conversation, they bring up how white they are and how they would get jumped if they go to [insert predominantly black city]. At this point, I roll my eyes and keep it at a distance.
I read and listen to a lot of black history/racism...so I tend to rip apart whatever non-BM say.