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Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

Yea, lots, not all, cause i'm happy with my black soulmate.
Dating sucks though, i hated dating..

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amy makes me sadUnhappy

your black knight is out there somewhere girl I know it!!

i know you're serious but this made me laughDead

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Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

Either 1 or no children at all, she means.

22 is too young to say you've given up on men. Us young women have become too jaded IMO

Men take a while to mature, so don't expect comittment now. It can happen but it's not the norm.
Work on your own discovery and growth.


i don't want commitment lol.


So you what is it that you want ideally?

nothing serious lol....

i give up.
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22?! Guuurl! That is too damn young to say you've given up on men (especially black men) and perhaps you should just focus on school/career for now anyways.

If you're trying to find a man, start going out more with your girls and classmates to casual places to hang and guys will find you. Expand your social group. Going to clubs will find you a man with no commitment asap I promise lol.
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by decemberdiamond decemberdiamond wrote:

I have just about everything I want in my current S/O, I hope it is forever

Papi's qualities that makes him an ideal mate:

Tall,
Nice build not muscular but toned
Afro-Latino like me
Own Apartment
Older than me
He has 0 kids (but I would have been ok if he had 1 child)
Own car
Great Career
Loves pets (owns a puppy)
Loves kids wants to be a father
Wants to get married
Wants to relocate to a warmer environment and leave (NYC)
Wants to build a vacation home in DR for us to go and visit family
Sexy in a mysterious way
Sexual and makes me his priority in the bedroom
Loves traveling
Cultured
Foodie like me
Has goals and ambitions that he is working hard to accomplish
Loves his family but they are not in his business
His family loves me
My family loves him
Has advanced degrees
Can hold excellent conversations in any place he goes and any type of people he can make himself relatable.
Makes me a priority
Is generous and surprises me with gifts just because
Is open, honest, direct, respectful and keeps me informed of what is going on in his life
Drinks socially
Does not smoke

Whew looking at this list I feel really lucky and blessed to have him


dang girl lol

you are definitely blessedLOL




Thank you I looked and was like wow the very few petty things we argue over are nothing compared to the positives. This list just gave me an idea of a valentine day gift
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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

22?! Guuurl! That is too damn young to say you've given up on men (especially black men) and perhaps you should just focus on school/career for now anyways.

If you're trying to find a man, start going out more with your girls and classmates to casual places to hang and guys will find you. Expand your social group. Going to clubs will find you a man with no commitment asap I promise lol.

this, plenty of thirst at night clubs. PLENTY
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The types of guys I like probably wouldn't approach me.
Sometimes you gotta do the approaching.
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Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

Either 1 or no children at all, she means.

22 is too young to say you've given up on men. Us young women have become too jaded IMO

Men take a while to mature, so don't expect comittment now. It can happen but it's not the norm.
Work on your own discovery and growth.


i don't want commitment lol.


So you what is it that you want ideally?


nothing serious lol....

i give up.


If you want a f*ck buddy that's easy!
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Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

Ive sworn off men



The Men I'm attracted aren't checking for me like that and ive accepted it.

What kind of men?


Black guys
I would date the guys that are good/decent that approach you tbh.

Black guys don't check for me,  so I talk to those who do.  Dont waste your time holding out.  at least get EXPERIENCE. So when your IBM comes around, you wont be a hot awkward mess. Trust

I need to be at least attracted to people who  approached me(never happened.) ...i don't like short changing myself

As i've said i'l accept it if there is no one out there for me..or drastically change my look.

We'll see..as for now i don't care anymore.
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You don't have to change yourself, someone out there will like you as you are.
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