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ModelessDiva 
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 Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 4:19pm |
 CherryBlossom wrote:
amy makes me sad
your black knight is out there somewhere girl I know it!! |
i know you're serious but this made me laugh
sorry
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AmyAmyAmy
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Joined: Nov 13 2011
Location: Rachetland
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Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 4:20pm |
GG wrote:
AmyAmyAmy wrote:
Derri wrote:
Either 1 or no children at all, she means.
22 is too young to say you've given up on men. Us young women have become too jaded IMO
Men take a while to mature, so don't expect comittment now. It can happen but it's not the norm.
Work on your own discovery and growth. |
i don't want commitment lol. |
So you what is it that you want ideally? |
nothing serious lol....
i give up.
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carolina cutie
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Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 4:20pm |
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22?! Guuurl! That is too damn young to say you've given up on men (especially black men) and perhaps you should just focus on school/career for now anyways.
If you're trying to find a man, start going out more with your girls and classmates to casual places to hang and guys will find you. Expand your social group. Going to clubs will find you a man with no commitment asap I promise lol.
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decemberdiamond
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Joined: Jan 11 2012
Location: New York, NY
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Points: 2531
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Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 4:21pm |
ModelessDiva wrote:
decemberdiamond wrote:
I have just about everything I want in my current S/O, I hope it is forever
Papi's qualities that makes him an ideal mate:
Tall,
Nice build not muscular but toned
Afro-Latino like me
Own Apartment
Older than me
He has 0 kids (but I would have been ok if he had 1 child)
Own car
Great Career
Loves pets (owns a puppy)
Loves kids wants to be a father
Wants to get married
Wants to relocate to a warmer environment and leave (NYC)
Wants to build a vacation home in DR for us to go and visit family
Sexy in a mysterious way
Sexual and makes me his priority in the bedroom
Loves traveling
Cultured
Foodie like me
Has goals and ambitions that he is working hard to accomplish
Loves his family but they are not in his business
His family loves me
My family loves him
Has advanced degrees
Can hold excellent conversations in any place he goes and any type of people he can make himself relatable.
Makes me a priority
Is generous and surprises me with gifts just because
Is open, honest, direct, respectful and keeps me informed of what is going on in his life
Drinks socially
Does not smoke
Whew looking at this list I feel really lucky and blessed to have him
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dang girl lol
you are definitely blessed
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Thank you I looked and was like wow the very few petty things we argue over are nothing compared to the positives. This list just gave me an idea of a valentine day gift 
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eanaj5
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Joined: Jun 29 2009
Location: here
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Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 4:22pm |
carolina cutie wrote:
22?! Guuurl! That is too damn young to say you've given up on men (especially black men) and perhaps you should just focus on school/career for now anyways.
If you're trying to find a man, start going out more with your girls and classmates to casual places to hang and guys will find you. Expand your social group. Going to clubs will find you a man with no commitment asap I promise lol.
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this, plenty of thirst at night clubs. PLENTY
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Sang Froid
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Joined: Aug 08 2010
Location: Ethiopia
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Points: 329043
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Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 4:22pm |
The types of guys I like probably wouldn't approach me. Sometimes you gotta do the approaching.
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GG
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Joined: Oct 14 2010
Location: New York
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Points: 29492
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Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 4:23pm |
AmyAmyAmy wrote:
GG wrote:
AmyAmyAmy wrote:
Derri wrote:
Either 1 or no children at all, she means.
22 is too young to say you've given up on men. Us young women have become too jaded IMO
Men take a while to mature, so don't expect comittment now. It can happen but it's not the norm.
Work on your own discovery and growth. |
i don't want commitment lol. |
So you what is it that you want ideally? |
nothing serious lol....
i give up. |
If you want a f*ck buddy that's easy!
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AmyAmyAmy
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Joined: Nov 13 2011
Location: Rachetland
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Points: 5761
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Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 4:24pm |
I need to be at least attracted to people who approached me(never happened.) ...i don't like short changing myself
As i've said i'l accept it if there is no one out there for me..or drastically change my look.
We'll see..as for now i don't care anymore.
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GG
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Location: New York
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Points: 29492
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Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 4:25pm |
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You don't have to change yourself, someone out there will like you as you are.
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ModelessDiva
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Joined: Dec 31 2010
Location: <3 <3
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Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 4:27pm |
are we basing all of this "i will never find the guy i want" off of physical attractiveness?
or confidence.
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