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Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

Either 1 or no children at all, she means.

22 is too young to say you've given up on men. Us young women have become too jaded IMO

Men take a while to mature, so don't expect comittment now. It can happen but it's not the norm.
Work on your own discovery and growth.


i don't want commitment lol.


So you what is it that you want ideally?
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Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

Ive sworn off men



The Men I'm attracted aren't checking for me like that and ive accepted it.

What kind of men?


Black guys
I would date the guys that are good/decent that approach you tbh.

Black guys don't check for me,  so I talk to those who do.  Dont waste your time holding out.  at least get EXPERIENCE. So when your IBM comes around, you wont be a hot awkward mess. Trust
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I'm interested in the reason why you believe black men dont like the two of you
Jess, and AmyAmyAmy

I find that odd

You can't use the i'm too "weird" or different... even the weirdest of the weird black girls ive seen have a weird black bf to match

There is no such thing as "im too ugly" to find a black guy that's interested in you either

Too fat? Never.LOL

Natural hair? 

now a lack of confidence might be an issue, but i see black men all the time that LOOK for women with little or no confidence...

So you just can't find your type of black man? Overly white location?

Let me know.
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Lots of black men don't approach me. They look then quickly divert their eyes lmao

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Originally posted by decemberdiamond decemberdiamond wrote:

I have just about everything I want in my current S/O, I hope it is forever

Papi's qualities that makes him an ideal mate:

Tall,
Nice build not muscular but toned
Afro-Latino like me
Own Apartment
Older than me
He has 0 kids (but I would have been ok if he had 1 child)
Own car
Great Career
Loves pets (owns a puppy)
Loves kids wants to be a father
Wants to get married
Wants to relocate to a warmer environment and leave (NYC)
Wants to build a vacation home in DR for us to go and visit family
Sexy in a mysterious way
Sexual and makes me his priority in the bedroom
Loves traveling
Cultured
Foodie like me
Has goals and ambitions that he is working hard to accomplish
Loves his family but they are not in his business
His family loves me
My family loves him
Has advanced degrees
Can hold excellent conversations in any place he goes and any type of people he can make himself relatable.
Makes me a priority
Is generous and surprises me with gifts just because
Is open, honest, direct, respectful and keeps me informed of what is going on in his life
Drinks socially
Does not smoke

Whew looking at this list I feel really lucky and blessed to have him

dang girl lol

you are definitely blessedLOL


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Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

Lots of black men don't approach me. They look then quickly divert their eyes lmao


lots, not all though....


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I've already been down that road with amy, modeless..

I don't think there's anything ppl can say to make her feel different.. Guys have to make her feel different.. Or she really needs to have an epiphany and see/believe it for herself...

I used to be like her.. No matter how many ppl told me I was pretty.. It took guys and random girls telling me to make me start believing it.. Sad but real...



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amy makes me sadUnhappy

your black knight is out there somewhere girl I know it!!
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Yea, lots, not all, cause i'm happy with my black soulmate.
Dating sucks though, i hated dating..
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

I've already been down that road with amy, modeless..

I don't think there's anything ppl can say to make her feel different.. Guys have to make her feel different.. Or she really needs to have an epiphany and see/believe it for herself...

I used to be like her.. No matter how many ppl told me I was pretty.. It took guys and random girls telling me to make me start believing it.. Sad but real...


what was her reason though?

she doesn't feel attractive?
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