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Okay I get that but she started off by saying she is currently with someone that meets just about all of these requirments...and follows with "Papi's qualities that makes him an ideal mate" so I assumed she was speaking about her current boo...My bad
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Originally posted by _ConcreteRose_ _ConcreteRose_ wrote:

Amy, do you have a twitter?

Yes.
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i feel you amy.. 
I'm ready to get a new dog and maybe start talkin to girls.. but our reasons for wanting to give up are different.. 
 
i don't think I'm one of those ppl who enjoys dating.. i like conversation but i don't 'like' 'like' barely anyone..  

your mr. right will find you though.. 
he might not be black though.. ya never know 

Girls are even more judgmental to me lool

I have never dated..but i don't think i'm the type to like that sort of thing. I'm terrible with people.
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Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

Okay I get that but she started off by saying she is currently with someone that meets just about all of these requirments...and follows with "Papi's qualities that makes him an ideal mate" so I assumed she was speaking about her current boo...My bad


Sorry I realize the way I wrote it I was speaking of qualities I looked for when I was single and qualities my current has, let me go edit
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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

i have a friend who thought like this at one time. she's dark skin, natural, didnt care for make up, she dressed kinda plain, didnt think guys were checking for her. She got some confidence, changed up her style and she's been dating her bf now for almost 2 years and they are super happy. I wouldnt be surprised if they got married in a year or two. She met him after she moved to a different state and joined a church.
oh yeah and he's tall dark and handsome lol

Sometimes a little change is good, whether its your style, your outlook, or your location.

I've changed my location and style.

Not happening. I've accepted it.
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My perfect mate:
  • 6'3 and up
  • nice teeth
  • GOOD hygiene
  • WORKS full time and knows how to work together to pay bills and save money
  • Dependable, I can know when he says something...It is DONE!!
  • But main thing he just loves me, likes to be around me, enjoys my humor and my company. 
  • Someone I can trust
  • Does not fall for peer pressure or family pressure
  • No kids and does not make babies on me while in relationship
  • Able to not cheat and mentally decides to be faithful no matter what.
  • Accepts me, weave, wig, no hair, fat, slimmer, glasses on my face, scarf on my hair.
  • truthful and not a professional liar
  • When he sees me, a smile comes on his face when we are 60 years old
  • Long lasting, healthy, happy LOVE
 
 
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Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

Either 1 or no children at all, she means.

22 is too young to say you've given up on men. Us young women have become too jaded IMO

Men take a while to mature, so don't expect comittment now. It can happen but it's not the norm.
Work on your own discovery and growth.

i don't want commitment lol.
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Meh different strokes for different folks no two lives are the same we have strictly been friends for way more than 10 yrs I guess some folks can handle some can't.
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Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

Girls are even more judgmental to me lool
I have never dated..but i don't think i'm the type to like that sort of thing. I'm terrible with people.


Really...?
I'd think girls would be more into the emotional and not as shallow.. I'd think they'd be more understanding/non judge mental.. Cus they know how hard it is out here as a female... It seems like a good friends who love each other type of arrangement..
My friend mentioned us being 'partners' the other day.. It seems nice aside from the fact that is prefer a man..

What state are u in?

Edited by coconess - Jan 05 2014 at 3:29pm
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Perfect man for me:

No kids
My educational lvl and up
Emotionally and physically available
6'2"+
21-29 
No smoking
No drugs
Honest
Loyal
Social drinking
Great teacher
Nice teeth
attractive
Nice head of hair
Good family
Family oriented
Never been in jail

Theres so much more to add to this list.


Edited by Jess - Jan 05 2014 at 3:45pm
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