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Originally posted by HeyBeautiful18 HeyBeautiful18 wrote:

How old are you Amy
I'm 22 next month.

@GG
of course not, but they won't judge and are cute to look at.
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Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

Originally posted by HeyBeautiful18 HeyBeautiful18 wrote:

How old are you Amy

I'm 22 next month.

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of course not, but they won't judge and are cute to look at.


There's absolutely nothing wrong with taking a break and getting comfortable with yourself. You can always go back to trying dating when you feel up to it.
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You're so young! You talkin like your 35

Nothing wrong with taking a break and working on yourself a little bit.

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I have just about everything I want in my current S/O, I hope it is forever

Papi's qualities that makes him an ideal mate:

Tall,
Nice build not muscular but toned
Afro-Latino like me
Own Apartment
Older than me
He has 0 kids (but I would have been ok if he had 1 child)
Own car
Great Career
Loves pets (owns a puppy)
Loves kids wants to be a father
Wants to get married
Wants to relocate to a warmer environment and leave (NYC)
Wants to build a vacation home in DR for us to go and visit family
Sexy in a mysterious way
Sexual and makes me his priority in the bedroom
Loves traveling
Cultured
Foodie like me
Has goals and ambitions that he is working hard to accomplish
Loves his family but they are not in his business
His family loves me
My family loves him
Has advanced degrees
Can hold excellent conversations in any place he goes and any type of people he can make himself relatable.
Makes me a priority
Is generous and surprises me with gifts just because
Is open, honest, direct, respectful and keeps me informed of what is going on in his life
Drinks socially
Does not smoke

Whew looking at this list I feel really lucky and blessed to have him


Edited by decemberdiamond - Jan 05 2014 at 2:40pm
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@coconess

If he's not black, then no Stern Smile... i will accept spinsterhood if that is my future.
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Originally posted by decemberdiamond decemberdiamond wrote:

I have just about everything I want in my current S/O, I hope it is forever

Papi's qualities that makes him an ideal mate:

Tall,
Nice build not muscular but toned
Afro-Latino like me
Own Apartment
Older than me
0-1 kids
Own car
Great Career
Loves pets (owns a puppy)
Loves kids wants to be a father
Wants to get married
Wants to relocate to a warmer environment and leave (NYC)
Wants to build a vacation home in DR for us to go and visit family
Sexy in a mysterious way
Sexual and makes me his priority in the bedroom
Loves traveling
Cultured
Foodie like me
Has goals and ambitions that he is working hard to accomplish
Loves his family but they are not in his business
His family loves me
My family loves him
Has advanced degrees
Can hold excellent conversations in any place he goes and any type of people he can make himself relatable.
Makes me a priority
Is generous and surprises me with gifts just because
Is open, honest, direct, respectful and keeps me informed of what is going on in his life
Drinks socially
Does not smoke

Whew looking at this list I feel really lucky and blessed to have him
da-fug that mean? LOL
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Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

@coconess

If he's not black, then no Stern Smile... i will accept spinsterhood if that is my future.
1st I'm not an advocate of dating outside your race (especially if you don't want to) but don't cut off your opportunity to find love holding out for a black man if you're having difficulty securing one now. Use the ones that ARE attracted to you as training on how to date a man period...

I also think it is very likely your location that's the culprit, and of course your confidence...IMO confidence trumps looks in the long run...
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Someone I share emotional connection with (very important), tall, post-secondary education, has a good job, honest, emotionally-stable, forgives easily, loyal, reliable, considerate, romantic, respectful, kind-hearted and compassionate, funny, adventurous....


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Either 1 or no children at all, she means.

22 is too young to say you've given up on men. Us young women have become too jaded IMO

Men take a while to mature, so don't expect comittment now. It can happen but it's not the norm.
Work on your own discovery and growth.

Edited by Derri - Jan 05 2014 at 2:25pm
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Jewel meaning he either has no kids (0) or 1 at the most
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