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I got him! Calls me his lady treats me like a lady and he's ferocious in bed!!!! Has his own place and car he is very self sufficient.....I like that.
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

Ive sworn off men


why?


The Men I'm attracted aren't checking for me like that and ive accepted it.
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My ex was my ideal mate except he partied too much and spend too much time with his male friends than me Confused 
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Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Where do you go to meet guys anyway?


I have no idea
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Not just any "mate," but this is my criteria specifically for a husband:

Practicing Muslim (not NOI, 5%, or half-stepping)
Respectable
Family-oriented 
Respects his mother
Good provider
Handsome and clean/good hygiene
Non-smoker/drinker

Someone that is God-conscious, responsible, mature, gives importance to his family, has goals, dreams, ambitions, and plans for the future;  READS books (Playboy and magazines don't count in my book), can hold a good conversation (not just on simple-minded things), is educated on the world (e.g. can hold his own in a discussion about America's foreign policy/politics), strives for growth in all facets of his life -spiritual, mentally/intellectually, financially, personally.


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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Ideally if like a guy who is heteroromantic and non or minimally sexual, speaks well, emotionally adjusted, likes to laugh, is independent, loves dogs, and enjoys a simple life of reading, movies/tv, chit chatting, and just being normal and stable. Height and strength are bonuses...but looks don't really matter.

Pass on kids, jail time, financial inability, immaturity, lack of direction, exes as best friends, females as "best friends", anyone who believes in haters, Internet or real life stunting, being negative and just generally being an ass.


yes. yes. yes.
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Sighhhhhhhhhh

I'm so in love.
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Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

Sighhhhhhhhhh

I'm so in love.


Yyyyyaaassssss
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Husband material:
Educated, handsome, consistent, funny, nice build, at least 5'7 (i'm 5'2), has a career or is just starting one, able to effectively communicate, patient, no kids, independent, romantic/sexual, affectionate, honest, has a car, supports my hobbies, isn't a dream killer, pushes me to do better/be better, christian, non-smoker, respectable, has morals/values, good hygiene, likes to cook or at least help out in the kitchen, preferably black or hispanic or both lol



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Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

Sighhhhhhhhhh

I'm so in love.


Aww
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