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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 02 2014 at 9:36am
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 02 2014 at 9:36am
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Coco I think when Sandy throws out the no man insult it's understood that she means a good one.

I really think Sandy says it bc she thinks she has a good thing going.

I think you're referring to Sandy bc I see it said by her mostly


farra just said it too. 

i think sandy does say it most but others do too.. 

and while she may feel like hers is a good man.. it really seems like many on here feel validated solely by having a man…
 I'm not the only one thats said it either i remember hairdo and others said it too… 
if you have a boyfriend… on bhm.. youre winning at life. 





You're 100% right. I just think ppl aren't trying to see your point tho so at this point just give it up.
Whether you have a good man or not, using that to invalidate someone else shows more about you then anything
Not everyone wants to be in relationship 'right now'. U never know why someone is single.

It really bothers me when women do this because it goes against what we've been fighting for. All these years of fighting for rights and you undo that with a patriarchal statement like "haha I have a man, u don't, u ain't shiit", I hate seeing it on here. And yes I realize that was a deep way of looking at it but underneath the surface that's what it looks like
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 02 2014 at 9:37am
Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Jesus sandra!!!!!!!!!!!! pages 155-159 or so. It's black history month!!


You will notice I was being cool and came home to see my name was mentioned out of no where.....
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 02 2014 at 9:37am
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:


In my feelings....youve been having this "A man aint a badge of honor" "discussion" for months now and Im in my feelings......clearly you feel some type of way about it cause you discuss it on here at the very least 3x a week. 

Mention have a man and being happy with him and I guarantee you Coco gone come in with this same tired ass discussion....

yup.. youre i your feelings.. talking about fat comments (which i havent said recently) 

exactly.. i say it whenever i comes up.. this aint new or 'coming for you' and you know it. if i was coming for you i woulda said somethin like, ' that fat bitch sandra thinks just cus she has a man she doesnt need her pork rinds for comfort anymore' trust me.. you would have known.. i woulnt have simply said, 'i don't get that argument…' 

youre saying anything… when ppl say they've found love or are happy.. i can quote a few times that I've been like, 'I'm happy for you' its when ppl literally say, 'i have a man… you don't' that i make comments.. 

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 02 2014 at 9:37am
I don't think it's about that.

It's an argument.
Not about women's rights.

If she has what you you want and you can use it.
Then do it.

Doesn't matter what it is.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 02 2014 at 9:38am
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Jesus sandra!!!!!!!!!!!! pages 155-159 or so. It's black history month!!


You will notice I was being cool and came home to see my name was mentioned out of no where.....

and youre still upset about cortez coming for you.. 
so you came for me outta no where. 
you know damn well i didnt throw a lick of shade 

im forreal done though. see if i respond again 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 02 2014 at 9:41am
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:


im forreal done though. see if i respond again 


 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 02 2014 at 9:41am
I didn't come for you I mentioned how you alway bring this shyt up but you was a church mouse to Tru.....Its valid as .....did you not just post 5+ times about what I am presently talking about? Yes you did so my response is valid.....
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 02 2014 at 9:42am
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


yet no questioning the fat shade still
 
it's not the same...Sleepy


Girl.LOL
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 02 2014 at 9:42am
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yet no questioning the fat shade still
 
it's not the same...Sleepy
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