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It's all the same and it's all about what the particular person really wants
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i do kind of agree with coco about money being the more tangible evidence of a type of happiness  though. Some folk can really put on for the world about their relationship. People are subject to change. Money in an of itself does not. For most people, real numbers in the bank are real numbers...


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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

I'm sure ANY woman on here could go get a boyfriend tomorrow…. 

can they go be able to splurge on whatever they want to buy..? 

they're not comparable. 

now.. if youre talking about having a great, wonderful, jesus type of man… then yea.. i get it.. 
but the argument is, 'i have a man, i win' when we really have no idea what your relationship is like.. it could be awful. 

ppl can prove that they have money.. you can't prove that he makes you happy 
semantics coco...you really can't "prove" anything over the internet. Nor can you prove possessions bring true happiness to your life, because after all its all subjective. I know people with plenty of money..and while shopping does quail the feelings of loneliness...its fading.

Similarly, you can't prove happiness nor can you prove misery about another's relationship from post either.

so to some man=winning & to another it doesn't. some think money=winning & other don't. All subjective.


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So now were talking about proof?

If your at the point of trying to prove anything to these ppl.
You're taking an L no matter how much money you have or how good your man is to you.

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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

So now were talking about proof?

If your at the point of trying to prove anything to these ppl.
You're taking an L no matter how much money you have or how good your man is to you.


factual statement LOL
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whether its the bag, the vacay, the house, the trust fund for your kids, the odd 1800's collectors pen collection you've spent loads to acquire… they are achievements that many can't have. 

who knows what your husband/boyfriend has put you through.. 

there are ppl with men that never see them 

y'all are just trying not to see the point.. its not about a purse… 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Jewelsnyc Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 02 2014 at 7:26am
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

thats different… 

talking about expensive things = i have money..  

everyone wants money… money = success.. it is a win. 


whereas some women have men who won't even pay for their sizzlers dinner 


That's not different.
Not everyone wants that bag. Ppl can't seem to wrap their heads around that .
And I'm out this if you think money auto means success.

no shade coco...but her thinking isn't that obtuse, alot of people believe money=success because we are a commerce driven society. However, true success is the ability to make an impact on a grander scale...not success from an individualistic stand point but an communal one.


summation: character/integrity not possessions make the man.

you have no idea how my thinking is.. 

im not speaking about my life personally.. 
i don't have hella money but i know when i used to be able to have whatever i wanted.. i still wasn't happy.. 

but I'm speaking on a larger scale.. that typically.. most humans strive for wealth 

ijs… you can't compare 'i have a boyfriend' to 'i can buy whatever i want' 

most ppl will pick being able to buy what they want because like i said.. your relationship can suck. 

it can't suck to be able to buy what you want.. i understand not all care about money.. but most do. 

relax coco...I wasn't trying to offend you. I was agreeing with you that indeed because we live within an individualistic society (commerce driven), money for most is the end game.

However, if that isn't what you've posted consecutively for the last 10-15 mins. please do correct me.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 02 2014 at 7:27am
don't be so literal.. by 'proof' i was just trying to say that having money is easier to see/observe than a happy relationship.. 

some ppl are in relationships and wanna die.. but you'd never know 


okay I'm done with this convo. it was nice.. 
(really.. it was) 
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LOL coco so much reminds me of myself. beat that horse girl...I ain't even mad tho.
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Yep and rich ppl commit suicide all the time

See same thing

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