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when I was growing up we usually sat around the table and passed things. If mom was serving from the kitchen she served kids first. I don't ever remember it being a big deal though. When mom was working early or late dad made breakfast and dinners (yummy) . He was a man before his time I guess lol.


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My mother always served my father first.  She still does to this day.  We eat together as a family so we all technically eat at the same time, after grace is said.  My dad always has his plate first though.  

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ThoughtCouture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 26 2014 at 1:15pm
hmmmmm from what i can recall...if we were sitting down to eat as a family, the kids plates were sat down first and then the man of the house.  i think the rational was that the man's food would be the hottest this way...
 
 


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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

So does anybody do like the movies/tvshows and gather around the table, on some 'can you please pass the peas?" sh*t?


well if  put  that way, no we didn't do that LOL

my bro used to try to be funny and say 'pass the jelly' (anybody remember that OLD commercial? LOL)


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Can someone make a perks of being a woman thread

Because this thread is depressing me...I'm supposed to cook and eat last after a long day of work (where I'm getting paid the least out of everyone because I'm 1) black and 2) a woman

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I feel like if I cook I should definitely serve myself /eat first. That way hub knows it's safe to eat lol.

I think this should apply to all cooks. 'no, you first'

eta: by safe I mean good not that I'd be poisoning him


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shellbi you should make the thread!LOL
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women are only here to serve the man...yall aint know? God forbid if she feed herself or the offspring before the ball-bearer
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Originally posted by OhMyCurlz OhMyCurlz wrote:

Side eye given to those that would fix a grown ass man a plate before their young children. 

My kids will always be priority. Them eating and having enough to eat is more important to me than a grown ass man who can get his grown ass up and fix his own damn plate. 

ETA: I asked my SO and he said "The kids.....but it's supposed to be me. Embarrassed


Welp thats cool and kudos to you. But yes I would fix my husband's first and then fix my kids plate. We will all sit down and eat together and talk about how our day went that day. *who gives a damn what you think shrug*
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