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Gkisses 
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 Posted: Aug 25 2014 at 10:51pm |
 hauteshellbi wrote:
Breakfast in bed? Every sunday? Damn some men have it good |
Some men are worth it...
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Lady ICE
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Posted: Aug 25 2014 at 10:51pm |
blaquefoxx wrote:
For the sisters that's either married with children or are living together with children; who's plate do you fix first? The Mr. or the kiddies???  |
at gatherings its always kids first. once i get married its husband and then kids. theyll get over it...heck they're be grown probably.
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femmefatale85
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Posted: Aug 25 2014 at 10:57pm |
aNgElIc*SoUl wrote:
Lite Brite wrote:
noneyons wrote:
i'm curious about the rationale behind feeding your man first. anybody willing to share? |
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Idk, for some men it's about "I pay the bills/brought this food, so I eat first" 
Women may be thinking about it as being submissive, you know the "my man comes first"
My sister goes by both. Nobody eats until her husband gets home, even if he has to work late(sometimes as late as midnight). They wake up my nephews when he gets home so they can eat. Now that's taking it too far imo. |
this really bothers me
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hauteshellbi
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Posted: Aug 25 2014 at 11:00pm |
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It should femme cuz thats some ol bs
give the kids their dinner at a reasonable hour and put them to bed at 9 ,you and your hubby can have dinner together at midnight if that's what you want smgdh
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noneyons
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Posted: Aug 25 2014 at 11:02pm |
the religious aspect aside, if you are sitting down for dinner as a family, serving the children first allows their food to cool a bit while you prepare you and your hubby's plates.
besides, men tend to eat faster than women and kids so unless you want your hubby to stuff his face then leave the table to go watch football while youre stuck at the table supervising the children alone, i just don't understand the rationale behind feeding the man first.
but this is only applicable if you have the kind of family that sits down at meals together imho.
Edited by noneyons - Aug 25 2014 at 11:04pm
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Rumbera
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Posted: Aug 25 2014 at 11:28pm |
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Kids always eat first
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Lite Brite
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Posted: Aug 25 2014 at 11:34pm |
aNgElIc*SoUl wrote:
Idk, for some men it's about "I pay the bills/brought this food, so I eat first"
Women may be thinking about it as being submissive, you know the "my man comes first"
My sister goes by both. Nobody eats until her husband gets home, even if he has to work late(sometimes as late as midnight). They wake up my nephews when he gets home so they can eat. Now that's taking it too far imo. |
 NOOO.. this reminds me of the mentality some women have who choose their husband over the kid when there's been abuse. Idk your sister's situation, so I'm not saying that's her but why does he allow this? and further, who wants to deal with kids at midnight? I wonder if they'll resent him/her for this kind of stuff later
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aNgElIc*SoUl
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Posted: Aug 25 2014 at 11:45pm |
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They both do it for the reasons I mentioned above(and even deeper), and he said that was the way his parents did things.
My nephews(11 and 13) are pretty much used to it by now, so idk how they really feel. They're also the type of people who don't make groceries, they just "pick up" what they want to eat on that day.
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MizzAmirah
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Posted: Aug 25 2014 at 11:49pm |
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Kids first. Now if they're teenagers or grown, then maybe the Mr. first.
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afrokock
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Posted: Aug 26 2014 at 12:33am |
bunzaveli wrote:
wtf, men get the big piece of chicken and we get food first. what is this new age pepsi shiet ?
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African culture And just because you get served first doesn't mean that the kids are gonna starve or there'll be food running out However the kids often eat first because they go to bed first and much earlier
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