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Everyone serves themselves from the serving dishes on the table. Can't start eating until everyone has their food anyway.

That way they learn good manners, how to be patient, how to control their own portions, and aren't near any hot dishes/appliances.

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Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

i'm curious about the rationale behind feeding your man first. anybody willing to share?
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Sheiit I know im a forever single 22 year old but I don't get it either. Why can't men serve their own food like I don't mind cooking buterum you can share it out yourself.

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I think the whole idea is supposed to allude to "traditions of the father", ie bible context- head of the household etc. but I think some people are afraid to even say what they think for fear of rejection and to be seen as an "anti-feminist", but for me the real issue is balance in this life- we need both energies to be appreciated and revered
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From what I remember the mom's in my family served the children first so that's what i'd do.
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Im not married or dating but, I would definitely feed the kids first
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Im all about equality. He better fix MY damn plate once in awhile and Ill return the favor  LOL
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Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

i'm curious about the rationale behind feeding your man first. anybody willing to share?



Idk, for some men it's about "I pay the bills/brought this food, so I eat first"

Women may be thinking about it as being submissive, you know the "my man comes first"

My sister goes by both. Nobody eats until her husband gets home, even if he has to work late(sometimes as late as midnight). They wake up my nephews when he gets home so they can eat. Now that's taking it too far imo.
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Which is why when I lived with them I used to eat out a lot, especially before I came home. I knew if I didn't I would be SOL, I also used to sneak my nephews snacks to eat so they wouldn't be hungry .
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now that i think about it, i grew up in a muslim household when i was a youngin so we prayed as a family before each meal. therefore i'm pretty sure my ma had no particular reason to serve my daddy first since nobody was eating till we all sat down and prayed. 

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