i think you just need to get out..
i don't think there are really specific places for that unless its like.. speed dating or a singles mixer..
if you're just out and about (especially in a city) guys will try to talk to you
i guess if you're interested in something specific.. you could meet ppl with the same interests at those functions… like HB might meet a crafty person at a craft fair..
or when i used to be at barnes and noble a lot i met guys who enjoyed reading like i did.. or were in school