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    Posted: May 19 2014 at 2:01am
Is it worst when it comes from your own race? Or when it comes from other races? I was just thinking how as much internalized and institutionalized stuff we have deal with everyday and how so much of it is so ingrained that we don't even recognize it.
I've never watched the Dark-girls documentary because its never been my personal burden, (plus I get a daily dose of color-ism almost daily on BHM) and I felt like it reinforced negative stereotypes and I didn't want to embrace that...
with so many race issues I just wonder how other people feel? is it worst when you get it from your own or do you understand it more and let it go more easy?
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psychologically when it comes from ur kind

financially when it comes from yts

black folks can hurt ur feelings, yt folks will with ur $$$
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You're not every Black girl and who are you to dismiss someone else's experience

This  is why a lot of Black girls suffer in silent... they are afraid that other Black people will shame them for being honest and mistake that with being weak


 
Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

Is it worst when it comes from your own race? Or when it comes from other races? I was just thinking how as much internalized and institutionalized stuff we have deal with everyday and how so much of it is so ingrained that we don't even recognize it.
I've never watched the Dark-girls documentary because its never been my personal burden, (plus I get a daily dose of color-ism almost daily on BHM) and I felt like it reinforced negative stereotypes and I didn't want to embrace that...
with so many race issues I just wonder how other people feel? is it worst when you get it from your own or do you understand it more and let it go more easy?
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I didn't read where she said colorism doesn't happen or that it wasn't a big deal
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wait chill, I think you have misunderstood I didn't dismiss color-ism I was acknowledging that it was an issue as a product of institutional and internalized racism... I was just also saying for my personalized experience that this was not my race burden growing up. I was just using that as an example. for the question in this thread.
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I don't watch those type of documentaries either but that doesn't mean I am dismissing colorism

but this is starting to get off topic

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I totally understand what you are saying.. I also understand some people maybe very sensitive to this topic that is why I wanted to clarify
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I don't like to quantify racism. Its presence alone automatically labels things as at their worst in my eyes.
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both can be very damaging

I wish black pride and an appreciation for black history was regularly taught in very black household

I really feel like this is a major reason why we as a group can take 1 step forward but still end up taking 5 steps back at the same time

I don't expect others to give too much of a damn but I do wish my own did not speak so harshly about one another

worse part is when they do so and praise whites at the same time

when many do this I wonder if they even know any white people

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And that's the crux of the matter doc

There's a lot of commentary from observation, idolisation, fetishisation (yes people fetishise pakehas too) and general uninformed perspectives
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