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honestly...this sounds like a situation where you have to stop the enabling.
I have some  family members who will literally suck me dry of all I have if I let them.
They think because of the relationship, they can do this FOREVER. And if I let them...they will, without a doubt, absolutely ruin me, and have nothing to say about it.
Nope. Nope. Nope.

Your situation sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. Avoid it now and may be called some names, or cry later.



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oh...op just read your update.  this doesn't sound like anything either you or your hubby really wants to do...this is a disaster waiting to happen...
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if I give someone money to buy a computer, they better buy a computer
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my cousin said he wanted a tablet for his bday.  i gave him the money for it.  if he had bought something else with the money, i wouldn't have gave a damn...shrugs...

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I would, I consider that a lie
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We buyin' houses for people who can take care of themselves?
sh*t, buy me a house. I make way less than them.
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that's like when people ask for money to pay a bill and never pay said bill......you can't trust them after that
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well, i was giving him a gift for his bday anyway...i had asked him what he wanted before hand.
 
so, if you give someone a wedding gift from their registry and they exchange it for something else...you gonna be mad?
 
now if he had asked me for a lap top specifically to help him for school...i would probably feel some kind of way, if he took the money and got something else....
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

well, i was giving him a gift for his bday anyway...i had asked him what he wanted before hand.
 
so, if you give someone a wedding gift from their registry and they exchange it for something else...you gonna be mad?
 
now if he had asked me for a lap top specifically to help him for school...i would probably feel some kind of way, if he took the money and got something else....


no

I always give gifts with gift receipts

I agree with the bold
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