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There is never an excuse to cheat, or stay with someone who does. Loyalty is everything to me.
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I think most Women stay because of their ego...
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This thread is funny to me… when you age… and have been together for over 12 years the force of love is strong (with some…). If any cheating was goin on (with the hubby) it would be with me … real talk…
In my mind/ head---- I was thinking that --- the grass is always greener on the other side… --- Black Love (m/f)…
I did not get to experience (Black --- Love) --- Like my parents and other--- family members (the first in my family to step out)… I did try… Tho---- Real Talk
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Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

@Katrenia   Why did ma dukes want to end your marriage?  Does she feel the same now?

My Mom had a few bad marriages which ended in divorce, misery loves company. She's a jealous hearted woman.
She acts like she loves my marriage but always there to spread gossip and lies.  I love her but I keep her at a distance and out of my personal life. 
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is the grass always greener--- tho...

Hmmm....

In my mind I'm a dime... however, does that apply to most men in my domain ---Cali? hmmmm??????---
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

'swear'....
girl, shut upLOL


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so are you saying people dont need to worry if they're being cheated on because there's no way to ever confirm that your partner is 100% faithful?

interesting....



nope...
people should be concerned if they have reason to be....I'm just saying you never know what a person is doing, so perhaps its better not to stress about it, unless it comes up (you have proof, very good reason for suspicion, etc)
. Some people just generally try to find out if their partner is cheating, with no reason to even be suspicious in the first place. all that stress...

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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

There is not good reason to stay, but there are good reasons why leaving may not necessarily place you in a better situation. It entirely depends on the relationship. Some situations are easier to walk away from than others.

Keep in mind marriage isn't a purely emotional commitment for everyone. People are invested in their marriages for reasons outside of love and companionship, so betrayal is not an automatic disqualifier.

Also some cheaters aren't the same. Some are just philanderers and others behave out of character. The latter are usually genuinely regretful so if the wronged spouse can forgive the relationship can survive
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Originally posted by mommykat mommykat wrote:

This thread is funny to me… when you age… and have been together for over 12 years the force of love is strong (with some…). If any cheating was goin on (with the hubby) it would be with me … real talk…
In my mind/ head---- I was thinking that --- the grass is always greener on the other side… --- Black Love (m/f)…
I did not get to experience (Black --- Love) --- Like my parents and other--- family members (the first in my family to step out)… I did try… Tho---- Real Talk
You cheated to get some Black dangalang? Did you enjoy it more?
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Originally posted by 305bgirl 305bgirl wrote:

Originally posted by mommykat mommykat wrote:

This thread is funny to me… when you age… and have been together for over 12 years the force of love is strong (with some…). If any cheating was goin on (with the hubby) it would be with me … real talk…
In my mind/ head---- I was thinking that --- the grass is always greener on the other side… --- Black Love (m/f)…
I did not get to experience (Black --- Love) --- Like my parents and other--- family members (the first in my family to step out)… I did try… Tho---- Real Talk
You cheated to get some Black dangalang? Did you enjoy it more?

Im surprised u understood any of this tbh, i read this and was like,"wtf is she trying to say here?" Confused
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