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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

did anyone say because they still love the person?

is the reason men stay different than the reason women stay???

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you can kinda tell which ones in here have been cheated on and stayed… 



anyways, i do think that a couple can have a good relationship for 20 years.. then someone make a mistake.. 

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Some people think that they have put in too much time to "mold" a man and don't want another woman to reap the benefits.

This is what my friend said. She married her husband after dating for 10 years. During year 8, they were on a break and he knocked up another chick. He didn't even have the decency to tell her. The chick White Paged her and called her. They have 4 kids now and this heifer is forever shading her stepson and the other baby's mama. It takes everything in me not to teller that she could have walked away and never married him. Dude is a neanderthal and never pitches in with the children or housework. 
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She also had them babies back to back. 
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Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

So what if it's been a twenty year marriage and all has been gucci good and one of them cheats. . . so you trash the past twenty years for one indecression??




if 20 years are "gucci good" would you have an indiscretion? 

that doesn't sound smart

It never is smart but it happens. I know y'all wont believe this but it can make a relationship stronger.



LOLLOL

Okay, I'll explain. I have a relative who cheated on her husband but when the incident came to light her husband fell apart because he trusted her and she really hurt him. She said when he took her back he had a hard time even looking at her. 
Now, she says she'll never cheat again because she never wants to see her man hurt like that ever again. 

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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

you can kinda tell which ones in here have been cheated on and stayed… 



anyways, i do think that a couple can have a good relationship for 20 years.. then someone make a mistake.. 



You might just be hearing from the cheaters who are now condoning their own fukkery Stern Smile
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very true… 
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I am not about that unconditional love life.  Love aint enough. Neither is money. Those are my standards.

Now my home girl on the other hand. I encourage her to stay with her cheater boo.


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Originally posted by nanaly nanaly wrote:

Repetition!
Some women chose, attracted or are attracted to some kind of men depending on their family history/background, to make it simple, you try to fix your parents (grandparents, etc...) issues, your dad cheated on your mom, you will find a cheater and try to make him stay, love you, fight to keep you, act right (unlike your dad!) try to make him change, it's mostly an unconscious process...
Don't shoot me...

Agreed. A lot of people do not truly understand the power parents/upbringing/exposure has over the course ones life takes.

I talk so much to my parents. We all cool as f*ck. I have learned so much about myself in the process. I know what pitfalls to avoid.

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Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

you can kinda tell which ones in here have been cheated on and stayed… anyways, i do think that a couple can have a good relationship for 20 years.. then someone make a mistake.. 


You might just be hearing from the cheaters who are now condoning their own fukkery Stern Smile


Or people who are rationale and don't see things in black and white.

I actually know a few people who left and consider it one of the biggest mistakes of their life.
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