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Wow a lot of you are jaded and need a better outlook on relationships
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NONE AT ALL...

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Originally posted by missunfoolish missunfoolish wrote:

NONE AT ALL...


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Money.
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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Money.

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Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Maybe the woman just forgives the guy. Not everyone that cheats...cheats again.
true. 

and i was talking with friends over brunch about this. while i believe people can change, my trust isn't adaptable like that. 

and rather than pretend it is and keep the guy around, i will opt for the breakup. 
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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by LovesHim LovesHim wrote:

Honestly... I think people make mistakes... both men and women..... I don't know if I would leave initially if my husband of years cheated on me..... 

I know other people feel different about that but the decision to divorce or separate is between a husband and a wife and not other folk


IA. And leaving always the best thing or first option for every one in every cheating situation, except for abuse of course. But every situation is different...there are many factors to consider...
was it a one night stand that he felt guilty enough about to immediately confess to? was it a one-off situation? is he a serial cheater? is he going around getting women preggo, raw dogging, etc? is he a generally morally sound person who had a lapse in judgement, etc?
what kind of relationship do you have with your partner?
Can you live with the knowledge that he cheated?



All of this. I feel some folks have a simplistic view of relationships when it really isn't all that black or white. Perhaps it's youth. But it really does depend on the particulars.
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I wouldn't leave my husband if he was unfaithful but He's gonna pay to stay.
I want legally binding documentation that the houses, cars and anything else of value which we've accumulated will be mine in the event of a divorce, yeah. . . he cheats and I want it all plus alimony and child support. 
If he didn't agree to these terms, I'd feel that he doesn't trust himself to be faithful.

We've already discussed this before our wedding so there wouldn't be any surprises and it goes both ways. 

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one minute yall say its stupid to stay with a cheater
the next you're finding acceptional excuses to stay?

*head hurts*




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I don't think everyone knows how they would react until they've been in that situation.
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