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yea i know a few girls who don't wanna end things cus then they'll feel like the other girl got him and won… 

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honestly.....

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Some women stay because they have no self worth and only identify themselves as Mrs. Doctor, Lawyer, Producer, Artist, Politician and so on. 
Their claim to fame is their husband.
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...and all y'all staying for money better not judge Gabby,
Eudoxie-whatever her name is, or Evelyn
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Originally posted by LovesHim LovesHim wrote:

hmmmm i'll take the bait...

Maybe the woman lost her sex drive years back.. He loves her but he wants some P. 

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but her question wasn't why do men cheat....

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Originally posted by LovesHim LovesHim wrote:

Honestly... I think people make mistakes... both men and women..... I don't know if I would leave initially if my husband of years cheated on me..... 

I know other people feel different about that but the decision to divorce or separate is between a husband and a wife and not other folk


IA. And leaving always the best thing or first option for every one in every cheating situation, except for abuse of course. But every situation is different...there are many factors to consider...
was it a one night stand that he felt guilty enough about to immediately confess to? was it a one-off situation? is he a serial cheater? is he going around getting women preggo, raw dogging, etc? is he a generally morally sound person who had a lapse in judgement, etc?
what kind of relationship do you have with your partner?
Can you live with the knowledge that he cheated?

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I hate that women think it is their fault men cheat. You can be the best woman and cook meals, clean the house and wash his clothes, take care of his kids, be fine as wine and he will still cheat. I just feel so sad that women feel they have to accept this behavior. Men do it because a lot of times we let them and they know they can get away with it. At least if he cheatss make him suffer for a while before you take him back so he knows there is some kind of consequence to his behavior. I can see once being a mistake but a multiple time cheater ain't worth a grain of salt. 
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did anyone say because they still love the person?

is the reason men stay different than the reason women stay???
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Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Maybe the woman just forgives the guy. Not everyone that cheats...cheats again.

I don't believe that...once u break the seal u won't stop cheating...not saying that it will be all the time but what's the point of not getting a new taste every 2-3 or even 5 yrs if you've been forgiven?  Now you know how not to get caught.  I don't think ppl are selfless enough to stop cheating just bc they saw how much it hurt their partner.  People choose...this is the relationship I'm gonna cheat in, this is the relationship I'm not gonna cheat in.  

However I think that theory may be true for women...but that's bc they get busy with the kids. 
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the irony is...so many of the women who believe their partners are faithful... they just havent discovered the cheating yet.
its sad but, people will almost always try to get away with what they can.
dangerous world.


trust is a helluva thing.

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