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i haven't seen a single good reason to stay yet 
including children


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Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

i haven't seen a single good reason to stay yet 
including children
No? Hmm…

I kinda agree. Cause yeah, that kid thing can go either way.
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So what if it's been a twenty year marriage and all has been gucci good and one of them cheats. . . so you trash the past twenty years for one indecression??




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There is not good reason to stay, but there are good reasons why leaving may not necessarily place you in a better situation. It entirely depends on the relationship. Some situations are easier to walk away from than others.

Keep in mind marriage isn't a purely emotional commitment for everyone. People are invested in their marriages for reasons outside of love and companionship, so betrayal is not an automatic disqualifier.

Also some cheaters aren't the same. Some are just philanderers and others behave out of character. The latter are usually genuinely regretful so if the wronged spouse can forgive the relationship can survive.

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Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

So what if it's been a twenty year marriage and all has been gucci good and one of them cheats. . . so you trash the past twenty years for one indecression??




if 20 years are "gucci good" would you have an indiscretion? 

that doesn't sound smart
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Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

i haven't seen a single good reason to stay yet 
including children

You stay for love.
Love, love. love. . . makes you do foolish things. <---I think that was an old song.LOL

Sometimes love can make you do things that only those involved will understand. 
If you can rebuild that trust and haven't told all your friends and family your business, many things can be worked out between a loving couple.
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Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

So what if it's been a twenty year marriage and all has been gucci good and one of them cheats. . . so you trash the past twenty years for one indecression??




if 20 years are "gucci good" would you have an indiscretion? 

that doesn't sound smart

It never is smart but it happens. I know y'all wont believe this but it can make a relationship stronger.


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Repetition!
Some women chose, attracted or are attracted to some kind of men depending on their family history/background, to make it simple, you try to fix your parents (grandparents, etc...) issues, your dad cheated on your mom, you will find a cheater and try to make him stay, love you, fight to keep you, act right (unlike your dad!) try to make him change, it's mostly an unconscious process...
Don't shoot me...


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Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

So what if it's been a twenty year marriage and all has been gucci good and one of them cheats. . . so you trash the past twenty years for one indecression??




if 20 years are "gucci good" would you have an indiscretion? 

that doesn't sound smart

It never is smart but it happens. I know y'all wont believe this but it can make a relationship stronger.



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Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

So what if it's been a twenty year marriage and all has been gucci good and one of them cheats. . . so you trash the past twenty years for one indecression??






if 20 years are "gucci good" would you have an indiscretion? 

that doesn't sound smart
Hillary stayed with Bill & Vanessa stayed with Kobe. Bill & Camille Cosby etc... Why would they be better off as divorced women?

Edited by Senior Detective - Jan 02 2014 at 7:45pm
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