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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

I got a different moral but I'm a cynic 

I hope for the best, but my view is that he is the type that would leave her high and dry if she had a child with a disability or if something happened where she got in an accident and was in a wheelchair/disfigured or something. IMO, how you handle crisis and inconvenient yet important situations means a whole lot...
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Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

I got a different moral but I'm a cynic 

I hope for the best, but my view is that he is the type that would leave her high and dry if she had a child with a disability or if something happened where she got in an accident and was in a wheelchair/disfigured or something. IMO, how you handle crisis and inconvenient yet important situations means a whole lot...


That's what i thought, didn't wanna be that negative.

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Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

I got a different moral but I'm a cynic 

I hope for the best, but my view is that he is the type that would leave her high and dry if she had a child with a disability or if something happened where she got in an accident and was in a wheelchair/disfigured or something. IMO, how you handle crisis and inconvenient yet important situations means a whole lot...


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Yep. So mr. fireman in the original scenario may feel the same way when ms. md rejects his innocent, helpless little cousin.
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He's doing the right thing for his cousin but she doesn't have to accept something she don't want thats not fair to her at all.
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I think he is asking a lot of her O wait he didn't ask because she has no kids and a high demand job so I dont think it makes less of a person I rather her say she is not with it then deal with a child she secretly hates.
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Last question.....he got good dicc?
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Well I don't wrong either of them, but if they were married, then his family becomes hers too... IMO, you gotta do what you gotta do when it comes to family... there's too many black kids in care... and if it wasnt part of my plan, then my plan would have to change.
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if this really isnt right for her, she needs to leave, rather than stay and end up resenting the child or her hubby
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Originally posted by thewonderfulwa thewonderfulwa wrote:

I think he is asking a lot of her O wait he didn't ask because she has no kids and a high demand job so I dont think it makes less of a person I rather her say she is not with it then deal with a child she secretly hates.


his job is more demanding....i think fire fighters work like 3 days on and 3 off type of situations


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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Last question.....he got good dicc?

i don't know all of that.. LOL 
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