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Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

 not only is bhm [advice] going to leave her broke and single; they gone take her man and fix him up with someone else too lol

BHM...is cold blooded... LOL


Naw she ton leave herself single....and if she gon let him go....I will find someone that will be happy to play house.....
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Yall are WRONGLOL
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Originally posted by mangachan mangachan wrote:

Yall are WRONGLOL


Why ?

This gentleman needs someone to cook him dinner and rub his back after a long day of saving cats from trees and old ladies from burning apartments. A kid that doesn't come with "baby mama" drama and doesn't need help wiping his ass is good.

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If it were me, I would be proud of him stepping up to the plate to save the child from a foster care experience.  Its not like he is taking the child just to get a foster care check and the free gas, heating & electricity assistance that comes with a foster child, he is doing it out of compassion, concern and love. He is showing that he is the strong black man that kids need.

If she doesnt want to deal with the situation, she needs to make her choice or hash it out with him and the pre-marriage counselor to see what is best when everything is on the table.

This same scenario happened to a woman that I know. She was in a long term relationship with a guy that we went to college with, maybe 3-4 yrs and talking marriage. He has a doctorate in a mathematic field, is hung like a horse and makes a ton of money by BHM standards he is a 10. She has masters degrees and is management level in her field and they were around the same age, early 30s. The girl had a knucklehead older brother who had a baby with a woman that was as irresponsible as he was and the woman did something and for whatever reason the brother was in trouble at the same time and the child was about to go to foster care then possibly be put up for adoption due to unfit parents, so my friend became the child's guardian/caretaker/mom really overnight. The Mathemetician was like oh hayl no, youre a momma now, so you cant be spontaneous any more and I did not sign up to be play-play-step daddy and he bounced out HARDDDD. Just left with no remorse.

Fast forward 10 yrs later, her brother and them have the little boy and the brother is now more mature and responsible, Mathmetician looked her up & snatched her up and they are now married with a child of their own. No real moral to this story, just possibly that he should have hung in their with her since he ended up looking her up and quickly marrying her anyway.
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Moral of the story is REGRET.......
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I got a different moral but I'm a cynic 
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So she would be home solo with the child often since hes away at work?
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Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:



This same scenario happened to a woman that I know. She
was in a long term relationship with a guy that we went to college with,
maybe 3-4 yrs and talking marriage. He has a doctorate in a mathematic
field, is hung like a horse and makes a ton of money by BHM standards he
is a 10. She has masters degrees and is management level in her field
and they were around the same age, early 30s. The girl had a knucklehead
older brother who had a baby with a woman that was as irresponsible as
he was and the woman did something and for whatever reason the brother
was in trouble at the same time and the child was about to go to foster
care then possibly be put up for adoption due to unfit parents, so my
friend became the child's guardian/caretaker/mom really overnight. The
Mathemetician was like oh hayl no, youre a momma now, so you cant be
spontaneous any more and I did not sign up to be play-play-step daddy
and he bounced out HARDDDD. Just left with no remorse.

Fast
forward 10 yrs later, her brother and them have the little boy and the
brother is now more mature and responsible, Mathmetician looked her up
& snatched her up and they are now married with a child of their
own. No real moral to this story, just possibly that he should have hung
in their with her since he ended up looking her up and quickly marrying
her anyway.



So, after 10 yrs she's in her early 40's. Was it really love on her part or fear of growing old and being alone ?

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Originally posted by Im_oh_so_hott Im_oh_so_hott wrote:

Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:



This same scenario happened to a woman that I know. She
was in a long term relationship with a guy that we went to college with,
maybe 3-4 yrs and talking marriage. He has a doctorate in a mathematic
field, is hung like a horse and makes a ton of money by BHM standards he
is a 10. She has masters degrees and is management level in her field
and they were around the same age, early 30s. The girl had a knucklehead
older brother who had a baby with a woman that was as irresponsible as
he was and the woman did something and for whatever reason the brother
was in trouble at the same time and the child was about to go to foster
care then possibly be put up for adoption due to unfit parents, so my
friend became the child's guardian/caretaker/mom really overnight. The
Mathemetician was like oh hayl no, youre a momma now, so you cant be
spontaneous any more and I did not sign up to be play-play-step daddy
and he bounced out HARDDDD. Just left with no remorse.

Fast
forward 10 yrs later, her brother and them have the little boy and the
brother is now more mature and responsible, Mathmetician looked her up
& snatched her up and they are now married with a child of their
own. No real moral to this story, just possibly that he should have hung
in their with her since he ended up looking her up and quickly marrying
her anyway.



So, after 10 yrs she's in her early 40's. Was it really love on her part or fear of growing old and being alone ?


I was talking about him. He should have hung in there since he ended up having regret of dumping her and realized that she was the person that he let get away. She had moved on, had been engaged two different times to other men and was not living in fear of growing old. When he looked her up, he put everything on the plate, and wooed her really hard, etc and convinced her that he had changed for the better and that he realized that he was an a**hole years back when he dumped her without warning. She was wooed back into love with him by the way that he made himself very vulnerable and open and did everything he needed to do to get her back in his life and to move across the country to marry him. I have no clue about what % of her decision was love, what % was love of that hammer dik or what % was love of his money/social class/financial security since he is paiddddd...I just know that back in the day, he was the love of her life til she dumped him and she was very excited when he looked her up though she was a bit ashamed to discuss the fact that she used to say that she would never ever forgive him. People change tho and they seem very happy.

She is actually younger than he is, he is now 42 and she is now @38 and the baby is around 1.5 yrs.


Edited by NJHairLuv - May 27 2014 at 7:29pm
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