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Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

Sounds like he's simply dependent, if he had to decide between you or the weed?? Would you be concern??
 
I said the same thing.  It reminded me of the movie knocked up, the earthquake scene.  When he protectively carried his bong outside the house during the earthquake but left his pregnant girlfriend in the house.
 
 
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Originally posted by Ds2nice Ds2nice wrote:

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Leave, done it before.
 
Can you share your experience?  what happened?

I told him to not smoke in the house after he started. He started smoking in the backyard, and then the porch. 

We broke up for many reasons, including that. 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote carolina cutie Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 22 2013 at 5:29pm
Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

Treats you like a queen, dope d!ck, a job, and his own place?   There's room for growth. Not seeing a problem here...

Everybody has their flaws. Rather deal with a good man who puff, puff, passes than somebody else just cuz they're a square.

Problem must not be that bad if it took her that long to figure it out, you didn't notice it when you picked him up, and he still has a job.

I admit tho, I'd have a totally different outlook if we were talking bout crack or meth.


lol I would hope you would


Even I'm not that liberal lol.
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Originally posted by Ds2nice Ds2nice wrote:

You're dating a man/woman that treats you like a queen/king, very attractive person, and the sex is great......very passionate sex.   A couple of months into the relationship, you realized that your Mr./Ms. Wonderful is a weed head. 
What would you do?  Have anyone been in a relationship with a person that is obsessed with smoking weed?
 
 
I have a friend that is dating a person like this and he smokes at least 5-6 times a day and his reasoning is he needs it to calm his nerves down. Ermm  When he doesn't smoke, he's not a pleasant person to be around.  After he smokes, he becomes very mellow and easy to get along with.  However, there are times when he gets a little too mellow.....like a bit too stoned to function. 
 
My friend doesn't smoke but she really cares for this person.  I told her he's not different from any other type of drug fiend and she should really consider cutting her losses now and leave him alone.  I think she doesn't want to give him up because of the sex......she doesn't want to say it but I think its the LD that got her. 
 
What say you?

The real him is the unpleasant person. He may want to quit smoking one day...then there won't be anymore variation. Therefore, she should cut her losses or at least change her mindset about him to only deal with him for the D if that is what she is about.
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Girl bye that make shampoo and body wash for that.......lmao.....hell old school way is relaxer or bleach the hair.......like I said unless they taking blood its pretty simple.....

LOLLOL

Gurl, They got me scared straight. I'm nervous because I did hooka.
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Them white corporate menz love them some coke. 
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dump him, I will not even date a guy who has to have a drink every after work..
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I know some very successful people who smoke weed like that - and they're doing big things.

The problem is that weed effects everyone differently... but it sounds like he's responsible (as far as the info in the OP goes), so he's a "functioning" smoker LOL

Some people smoke it and cant be productive at all, so that's a whole 'nother story.

And if it was something other than weed, that would definitely be a problem.

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I don't have a problem with weed. Shiet, ill puff once in a blue moon if its around

However I can't stand people that spend the majority of their money in it. The ones that can't function properly throughout the day without taking a hit every few hours

Like if your dependant on it, then to me that's addiction and I can't deal with that..
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 I dont like the smell of it or the taste it leaves in smokers mouths Dead Sh!t is nasty
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