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    Posted: Feb 02 2013 at 5:00pm
Hi ladies! I'm not really sure how to start this off so ill just start. I have been out of a relationship for a while now (almost 1 year) since then I haven't been in a relationship with any one else. Just recently I have met someone new. This was about 2-3 weeks ago. When we first met we talked about everything. Since them he has been texting me everyday and wanting to talk all of the time. At first I thought it was nice but now I feel like I'm suffocated :(. I feel so guilty for saying this because after I got out of a relationship with my ex, I prayed for someone caring, smart, and attentive. When we talk I do not feel chemistry. I tend to compare the chemistry I had with my ex to the guy I just meet. I really don't feel anyway when I'm with him. From this, what would u all do? Would u ignore the lack of chemistry for the dream guy that's good on paper?
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I think u should be honest w/ the guy so u dnt lead him on and tell him u just want to be friends. And go out and try to meet new ppl go to social events, like the blue martini, comedy clubs, something, if ur look to be in a relationship.
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its only been 2-3 weeks, i say give it a little more time to date.  he may just be really excited and in to you and wants to show you that he is interested. i do understand being suffocated, however and that can actually be a turn off.

so just tread lightly. date others who may come across your path. if he gets too serious and you are not ready, simply just be honest and let him know you just want to date/take things slow/get to know, etc.

comparing to exes can sometimes block you from a great guy. 

good luck!
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hit it and quit it.
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Originally posted by Huey_P_Sphinx Huey_P_Sphinx wrote:

hit it and quit it.


LOL..oh wow LOL

I say give it a lil more time, get to know him a little bit more, he may be a nice guy overall....then if your still feeling the same way later on down the line then tell him you got back with your ex so he would back off.

throwing up the fact that u got bk with ur ex or children father always works. never fails lol

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Let him know your break up is still new to you and you don't want to rush into anything right now. 
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Originally posted by khivey khivey wrote:

Let him know your break up is still new to you and you don't want to rush into anything right now. 


Khivey's advice will buy you a few months to determine if you want to pursue something (more than friendship) with the guy. During this time try to figure out why the chemistry isn't there. If it's something fixable then give him a chance but if not say you got back with your ex before he starts to get on your nerves.
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