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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote katakana89 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 17 2013 at 2:05am
And also OP, using someone isn't always an intentional doing. Some ppl get comfortable if you allow them to, and they can unintentionally use you bc of it. This may also be the case. He may not be a malicious person, but he is bumming off of you and will continue to. You're not giving him a reason to have to do better.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote MsTaurus Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 17 2013 at 3:09pm
Thanks everyone. You all made great points, both for whether to leave or to stay. I have a lot to think about, but my gut feeling is telling me to leave him. Now, it's just a matter of how I will do it.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote Printer_Ink Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 18 2013 at 4:00pm
Well, there are 50 ways to leave your lover.
Just ... leave.
 
It's your place so ... put all his stuff in bags outside the door and change all the locks.
 
Pin a Dear John letter to the biggest bag.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Amillion Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 19 2013 at 2:31pm
30 years old? You should already know the answer to this lol......next thread.
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Wow that's deep, your fam sayin leave him alone bcuz he might  become a liability.....(WELL DAYUM) LOL LOL

I would say don't let him borrow anything, let him see how it feels to be without, maybe that'll be a wake up call for him to get his ish together. But 1st off he shouldn't of just quit his job until he knew for sure that his business was stabled. So now he gotta start from the bottom...and with a lil bit of motivation he prolly can get somewhere, he seems like he's good with setting goals, he just gotta make it happen. So maybe if he stop playing the damn video games and put just as much time into getn his ish togetha then he wouldn't have any issues when it came till money. 

Till then see where he ends up in a few months or so. If he still ain't tryin then maybe u should cut him short....but also keep in mind Money ain't everything. 

Sumn to think about....
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lol trash bags 
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34 & asking for money..
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You're asking for help about your man on a forum of strangers, he has already been a liability. The man clearly has no intention of doing better for himself. You do not share that same lethargy so leave. You are not his mother, he is too old to be behaving so incompetently.
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