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God, I really hope this is a joke.
What a selfish man: one for getting married to someone he didn't love, two for having kids with someone he didn't love, three for thinking or remaining in love with someone from several years ago.

What will happen if it doesn't work out? He is in "love" with a fantasy.

If this were happening to me and I loved him, I would be beyond devastated, but I would try to get as much as possible from him so the kids would be taken care of.
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That is no one but the other woman influencing that situation.  Wow.
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Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Hearing sh*t like this makes you want to stay single. I see why people snap and take matters into their own hands. Everyone can't process heartbreak and devastation.
 
 
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Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

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My husband and I were together for nearly ten years, one son who is nearly eight, and twin daughters who are five. Over Thanksgiving told me he reestablished contact with his first love (his high school sweetheart) and that he is still in love with her and wants to be with her. He said he understands that I will probably hate him forever but he has to be with her and she has accepted him back.

I am not sure what to do because he said he can only contribute monetarily to our children, that this girl's "terms" for her to be with him is that he turn his back on his children and only have a family with her. He is going to do that. He literally told me I can tell our children that he died because aside from whatever child support he is ordered to pay when we divorce he never wants to see them again.

I have been numb. Christmas was horrible as my son and daughters wanted to know where their father was and why he wasn't answering his phone.

His family is taking my side, which is comforting, but his mother told me that he said to her that she better not bring "those kids" around him and his new girl and that she shouldn't worry because she will have "new grandkids" by the end of next year.

I am not sure what to tell my children. As much as I would love to tell them that he's dead, he's not and feel like bearing false witness like that will hurt me in the long run. My son has been acting up lately and my daughters are not their cheerful selves.

I feel like okay, if he wants to leave me to be with that bish, whatever, but how can he turn his back on his flesh and blood? That is what I cannot figure out how to explain to my children. Can a court make him do visitation? I don't want my kids to suffer but I really don't know what else to do.
there's gonna be alot of slow singin
and flower bringin
 




shoot his ass, show up at his funeral spit on his muthafcukin grave, and collect his life insurance
and since I am still his wife bury thart punk ass nicca in a card board box and sell all his stuff at a garage sale for one cent. Ole ain't sheit as nicca  
and I wish that heaux would show up to the funeral 


kumbya my muthafcukin ass









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Angela Basset has to be one of the baddest women I've ever laid eyes on.
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LOL
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co-sign with angela lol
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I would be so hurt but I would let him go. I don't need a trifling man like that in my life and around my kids. 
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I'd be hurt, probably have to start seeing a counselor  but hopefully I would be able to pull through....I always say...the best revenge is success, happiness and living a good life...and the main thing is getting to the point of indifference....where the person no longer "affects" you. 
 
Indifference means lack of interest, concern, or sympathy.
 
So when you finally become indifferent...you don't have to talk about them badly, curse them out, drive by their house, put mean stuff on facebook...none of that...cause they don't affect you. They don't exist in your world.
 
I have learned that for some of these "people" it is a BIG EGO BOOST...to know you are at home sad, depressed, and crying...while they have moved on...
 
sometimes...you have to cry, scream, and then dust your shoulders off and keep it moving.

 

 
 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 01 2014 at 7:40pm
^^^^^ 
but its not just about how you feel.. its the kids… 

i wouldn't be that worried about how it affects me… id be worried about the 3 young kids that would be confused and hurt.. they can't just keep it moving or get past it. 

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