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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote Lady ICE Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 01 2014 at 10:49am
i really wanna reply maturely but i keep thinkin about that ankle scene in misery.
that gif ^^ up there isnt helping.
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I haven't read the story, but based on the title I'd first ask him how long he's felt that way. Then I'd be angry because I would think he probably felt this way before we even got married, therefore just wasting my time. I'd thank him very much for our children, then tell him to get the fuk out and my lawyer would be contacting him about what each would get it the divorce settlement.....



yeah that's what I'd like to think myself as doing, but in reality I'd probably just start sobbing like a babyCry
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First, face the fact you will be divorced and single mom. Stop worrying about him because he had already let you know where he stands which isn't you and the kids.
Time to shift focus. Yourself mentally and emotionally. Perhaps seek counseling for you and kids.


I would never force my children to visit their father if he has expressed he is not interested in their raising, no matter what the court order errstates. Better yet, give up your parental rights and pay child support.

It's one thing to turn your back on a spouse or marriage but your kids...heartless

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I would be angry but I will move on- And take him to court for everything that he has.

I agree with whoever said getting the kids in therapy because I'm not sure how I would tell the kids.
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maybe i'm naive but i really find it hard to believe that a man who has been doing right by her and her kids for 10 years would want to financially to take care of them but would want nothing more to do with them. I read the backstory but i still feel like something doesn't ring true about the whole situation. 

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Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

maybe i'm naive but i really find it hard to believe that a man who has been doing right by her and her kids for 10 years would want to financially to take care of them but would want nothing more to do with them. I read the backstory but i still feel like something doesn't ring true about the whole situation. 
maybe he offered CS cuz he knew it was inevitable. She knows his family & Socia Security #, so he really cant avoid it unless he quits his job
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Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

maybe i'm naive but i really find it hard to believe that a man who has been doing right by her and her kids for 10 years would want to financially to take care of them but would want nothing more to do with them. I read the backstory but i still feel like something doesn't ring true about the whole situation. 
you cant?

i dont know bout the kids,

but the best way to get rid of a chick is to give her everything she wants and then she can get the fucck out
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I'd have to kill him or his bitchStern Smile
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Wouldn't it be funny if once he gets put on child support and there's less coming to his new girl, she decides she no longer wants this...
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Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Wouldn't it be funny if once he gets put on child support and there's less coming to his new girl, she decides she no longer wants this...
he should pay CS AND alimony! He should barely have enough to buy a value meal when I'm done with him
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