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But ... if she still has feelings for him ... it's not gonna necessarily gonna turn out to be a 'fun' trip for her. Confused She already said that she 'recently' broke up with him and that she swore to her father (was it?)  that she would not get involved with him again and .. she said 'he ruined her life'.  Umm now that tells me a lot.Dead
When I have been in that situation (well, sorry but no one has ever 'ruined my life' for goodness sakes but she sound YOUNG to say such a thing)  and someone invited be over for a party (much less a vacation) where he might show .. I declined because I KNEW I still cared for him. She doesn't have to make a big deal out of it and tell folks everything .. just be BUSY and not able to make the trip. Maybe in a year or so ... things will be different.Smile
 
Hey, it's cutting Dead to see someone you like having fun with possibly other women Unhappy and it's gonna be hardddd to travel with and spend what ...a week or so in Mexico with this tight group of friends trying avoid him. Wow. It will make everyone .. uncomfortable because they will see that you are trying too hard to pretend you don't care and just want to have fun.
 
We are only human - what's wrong with admitting to yourself that you need distance .. for a while?That's all I am saying.
Sure she can put on a brave face to us and say she no longer cares for him .. but only SHE knows what really happening inside and I think if she did not care about that ex ...she wouldn't even be writing to us to tell the truth.Confused


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I may be off base, but I got the feeling that she is feeling James and happy to be out of the relationship with her ex so that she can now get what she wants. Hence the reason she mentioned he was single and so was she. She is hiding how she feels for James and due to the fact he knows her ex because he is best friends with his brother...she wants to get confirmation that her reputation won't be ruined because although they aren't close friends...men talk. And going to the beach on vacation...yes..of course things can pop off.
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GOOOOOOOOOOO!!! 
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I know for sure my ex isn't going on the trip he's a lot older than everyone and he has his own group of friends. I never really looked at James like that I mentioned he's single because the rest of our friends have kids and do the family thing. He's going with some of his co-workers and some friends he's met during college. He invited everyone in the circle and I'm the only one who can go.
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Ohhhh, in THAT case ...go and enjoy yourself!!!!!
(But as usual .. be careful to keep your distance romantically with James and do NOT get too hooked up with some random guy you meet there. This could cause James to bring home tales about your behavior.)
 
Hopefully another FEMALE will join you so there will be the three of you .. not the two of you to avoid it seeming like you and James are a couple on vacation. )
 
 


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