What is with the obsession with strippers?

**Sk!TtLeS B** wrote: Lilnicka4u2nv wrote:    Why does it seem like women are having a fit because they arent glorified degraded by rappers?    First it's dark skin women complaining about not being represented, now it's non skrippin' chicks? Go listen to some neo soul and call it a day  It's run of the mill insecurity, and I know because I used to think that way.  They're not getting the attention of the dudes they want (who, usually aint sh*t), see these dudes lusting after women of a "lesser caliber," then wonder why society is glorifying these "whores" in favor of "real women." What they dont see (read: ignore), is that while they're being ignored, these women are being degraded, objectified and disrespected. When I started getting the attention I believed I "deserved" (read: when my hips grew in and my waist cinched up) I realized I would much rather be ignored by these niccas. Walking down the street having people yell from a car or whisper in your ear (because there's never an in between) "She gotta donk!" "Ass so fat, I need a lapdance!" or "Now go on pop that p*ssy for a real nicca," is not what's hot.

Preach it. For real...I'm not a curvy girl, but I don't like the objectification that comes with non stop cat calling. Even on days when I walk down the street in jammies (yes I do that if I'm going to the bodega up the block) with my hair tied up in a scarf these guys STILL say the most degrading sh!t.

That's nothing any self respecting woman should be "yearning/longing" to hear.

I think a bit of exaltation has been occurring with this stripper fascination, though. Looks-wise, rappers tend to think they're the cream of the crop. I honestly think that's the reason why so many girls look..exactly…the…same these days. Same eyebrows, makeup, hair, style of dress. You see it all in strip clubs and it's all over our music now. Just an observation...

Once upon a time, I wanted to be a stripper. But when my friend told me men try to spit on her ass and put money down the front of her thong, I was like hell to the naw. Plus her kneecaps are jacked up from crawlin all the time on tables and sh*t. I still have gorgeous kneecaps cuz I am not a stripper.

nala52808 wrote: Once upon a time, I wanted to be a stripper. But when my friend told me men try to spit on her ass and put money down the front of her thong, I was like hell to the naw. Plus her kneecaps are jacked up from crawlin all the time on tables and sh*t. I still have gorgeous kneecaps cuz I am not a stripper.

Nala is back in full effect lol.