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Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

This is why brothas going to other races, we want our women with long hair. So why do white women do that ugly as fcuk bob cut. I don't like that shyt, wear it long or in curls sh*t, that's what attracts negros. I don't see latin women do that or asian women.


If this was a cartoon Id shoot you mouth off daffy duck style....
 
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This is why you have to present your true self in the beginning of a relationship. Her man was used to her one way for many years and then she does a drastic change, she should have made him see her natural hair years ago. He has a preference and she presented herself the way he liked for years.

Everyone has a preference just like some women dont like bald headed men. I know alot of men who dont like short hair no matter the texture.

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Originally posted by miana79 miana79 wrote:

This is why you have to present your true self in the beginning of a relationship. Her man was used to her one way for many years and then she does a drastic change, she should have made him see her natural hair years ago. He has a preference and she presented herself the way he liked for years.

Everyone has a preference just like some women dont like bald headed men. I know alot of men who dont like short hair no matter the texture.

I agree with most of this. I don't think it's okay for him to have a preference for straight hair on black women but she can't really blame him because she and other black women have conditioned him for so long to have that preference. Just because she woke one day and decided she was over the weaves and chemicals doesn't mean he is also.
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i have waist length locs and i told my so that i was gonna unravel them and wear my hair loose. he is not feeling the idea at all but if i wanna do it he'll just have to deal with it. i'm too lazy to start unraveling though :-/
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Originally posted by Ds2nice Ds2nice wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

This is why brothas going to other races, we want our women with long hair. So why do white women do that ugly as fcuk bob cut. I don't like that shyt, wear it long or in curls sh*t, that's what attracts negros. I don't see latin women do that or asian women.


If this was a cartoon Id shoot you mouth off daffy duck style....
 
I so wish I was in your vicinityAngry
 
 
 
Always, got to say something negative towards me, quit reading my ish then!!!!
You know you are on a Black hair forum, right?  So why the hell you want to troll in here if you love yht women so much more than blk women??
 
 
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Originally posted by AmiliaCabral<b> AmiliaCabral wrote:

i have waist length locs
and i told my so that i was gonna unravel them and wear my hair loose. he is not feeling the idea at all but if i wanna do it he'll just have to deal with it. i'm too lazy to start unraveling though :-/

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Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Originally posted by Ds2nice Ds2nice wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

This is why brothas going to other races, we want our women with long hair. So why do white women do that ugly as fcuk bob cut. I don't like that shyt, wear it long or in curls sh*t, that's what attracts negros. I don't see latin women do that or asian women.


If this was a cartoon Id shoot you mouth off daffy duck style....
 
I so wish I was in your vicinityAngry
 
 
 
Always, got to say something negative towards me, quit reading my ish then!!!!
You know you are on a Black hair forum, right?  So why the hell you want to troll in here if you love yht women so much more than blk women??
 
 
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so we are supposed to wear the same style forever?
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


so we are supposed to wear the same style forever?
 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote bg Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 09 2014 at 2:37pm
i didn't watch the vid but er ehhhhhhhh

some naturals just don't do their hair...or it doesn't look like it at least Stern Smile

there is nothing wrong with being natural or being proud of what grows out of your scalp, you SHOULD be...

but men are men and most want to be pleased visually...them sideshow bob twistouts with crusty gel around the edges or raggedy TWA's are not cute

in my experience as long as your natural hair is neat/healthy most don't care...

it actually seems as if black men are becoming more attracted/into women with natural hair...
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