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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

This is why brothas going to other races, we want our women with long hair. So why do white women do that ugly as fcuk bob cut. I don't like that shyt, wear it long or in curls sh*t, that's what attracts negros. I don't see latin women do that or asian women.


If this was a cartoon Id shoot you mouth off daffy duck style....
 
I so wish I was in your vicinityAngry
 
 
 
Always, got to say something negative towards me, quit reading my ish then!!!!
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you could be bald for all i care

yes i have dated some baldheaded women
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Originally posted by Bored w/Out Me? Bored w/Out Me? wrote:

The negro in the OP don't really Love her...


this was my takeaway too.
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Deja vu.
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Originally posted by CherryBlossom CherryBlossom wrote:

right nd!

I know that a woman having short hair is frowned upon by some men

...hell I remember when I bc'd a while back and had a twa and my dad looked at me like


"did your mama tell you to cut it?"

I said no and he just shruggedLOL



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If he can't get over the fact that I want and like my hair natural but he hates it, then he will be dropped.  Why stick around someone that doesn't appreciate you. 
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Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

This is why brothas going to other races, we want our women with long hair. So why do white women do that ugly as fcuk bob cut. I don't like that shyt, wear it long or in curls sh*t, that's what attracts negros. I don't see latin women do that or asian women.


If this was a cartoon Id shoot you mouth off daffy duck style....
 
I so wish I was in your vicinityAngry
 
 
 
Always, got to say something negative towards me, quit reading my ish then!!!!
You know you are on a Black hair forum, right?  So why the hell you want to troll in here if you love yht women so much more than blk women??
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This is why you have to present your true self in the beginning of a relationship. Her man was used to her one way for many years and then she does a drastic change, she should have made him see her natural hair years ago. He has a preference and she presented herself the way he liked for years.

Everyone has a preference just like some women dont like bald headed men. I know alot of men who dont like short hair no matter the texture.

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Originally posted by miana79 miana79 wrote:

This is why you have to present your true self in the beginning of a relationship. Her man was used to her one way for many years and then she does a drastic change, she should have made him see her natural hair years ago. He has a preference and she presented herself the way he liked for years.

Everyone has a preference just like some women dont like bald headed men. I know alot of men who dont like short hair no matter the texture.

I agree with most of this. I don't think it's okay for him to have a preference for straight hair on black women but she can't really blame him because she and other black women have conditioned him for so long to have that preference. Just because she woke one day and decided she was over the weaves and chemicals doesn't mean he is also.
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i have waist length locs and i told my so that i was gonna unravel them and wear my hair loose. he is not feeling the idea at all but if i wanna do it he'll just have to deal with it. i'm too lazy to start unraveling though :-/
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