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Originally posted by OhMyCurlz OhMyCurlz wrote:

I think for men, the most harsh transition is from long to short.....not necessarily the natural aspect. 

I'm natural and my hair was tail bone length. I was proud of that sh*t too. Then I bleached the hell of it and just cut it. I still either wear it in a bun or straightened but the transition of me having short hair now is what is taking some time for him to get used to. 

I think a lot of black men just flat out don't like short hair. 

When I see women with LONG natural hair, I generally see men liking it. As long as she can rock her look and pull it off men seem to be straight with it. 

My stylist when I was relaxed always had long hair (relaxed). She was pretty and plump and dark skinned. She said men fell in love with her hair and idolized it and she would have to tell them "Don't fall in love with this hair. It's not a part of me."
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if my S/O hated the hair that grows out of my head...

he wouldnt be my S/O...

ngas gone be ngas...
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id get a relaxer if he is $$$$$$$
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Keeping it real.....everyone can't pull off the TWA look.....I don't think its the texture that he aint feeling its the length.....
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its all about the length for  lot of men. if i have on my dominhair inspired fluffy 24" kinky straight wig, no makeup and nothing special on,  dudes be dying to get at me. let me put that wig on when im dolled up. folks husbands and boyfriends get mad inappropriate when i walk past.
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If she had short hair that was straightened, a short cut like Halle or Nia Long he wouldn't mind it. Texture is definitely a big factor imo.
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I saw this at the nail salon a few weeks ago.  I will say I am very blessed that my dh isn't like that but my natural hair has never been really really short so maybe that's it but I don't think he'd care even if it were. He likes my hair uncovered.  It's the opposite for him...he detest weaves, wigs, 1/2 wigs, braids, etc.  That can get really annoying though.
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Mr00 doesn't care.....long as my hair is done he's fine.....he isn't a fan of relaxers tho.....he thinks its not needed when I can just flat iron.
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This is why brothas going to other races, we want our women with long hair. So why do white women do that ugly as fcuk bob cut. I don't like that shyt, wear it long or in curls sh*t, that's what attracts negros. I don't see latin women do that or asian women.
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Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

This is why brothas going to other races, we want our women with long hair. So why do white women do that ugly as fcuk bob cut. I don't like that shyt, wear it long or in curls sh*t, that's what attracts negros. I don't see latin women do that or asian women.


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